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Scary nature of relationships

Thanks Patti....and Shawn...for fixing what it was that you fixed.

Scary nature of relationships

Patti....

"Mature persons can and should handle scary and confusing"

I think this comes from a lack of information. So, I do agree with you...a mature person can and should be able to handle these situations.

A lot of this coping ability should have been instilled in from their parents. However, unfortunately, some parents don't have all the answers....or...both parents were not around during the child's (non-maturity) phase was existing. When that happens, the lack of maturity person needs to seek the knowledge and experience on their own. There will be times when they stumble and fall...that is to be expected...but actively seeking improvement will minimize and limit the stumbles in the future. Thus, more confidence (leading to feeling less scared) and with knowledge comes less confusion.

Scary nature of relationships

Hmmm IW, so many things come to mind with your invite.

Scary nature of relationships

Thanks Jac,

The information you pointed out during his opening and with the psychological aspect of things...greatly appreciated.

Scary nature of relationships

Hello Patti,

I certainly appreciate your positive and happy go lucky nature too. Not to mention, the great videos you have shared too. Thank you for that...and thank you for your comments in general as well.

Scary nature of relationships

CC...

I can see where what you say makes complete sense. Love is a powerful thing...and people in a desperate position are probably the most vulnerable.

Scary nature of relationships

Good stuff Grand.

If any gender thinks 97% of the opposite gender is terrible, they are in big trouble and will most likely stay single the rest of their lives.

Scary nature of relationships

Hello Friend,

Yes, I was hurt. I have had plenty of time to heal and I have had plenty of time to educate myself...however, there always seems to be something that I find that I did not realize.

I think I am ready for a relationship today, and have been for some time now. However, I think if I am finding things educational and things that will help me with my future relationship(s)...I think others may find it equally interesting. I highly doubt I am the only person in this world that thinks this way and has felt they needed to take some times to figure things out.

Traits of a high value man...

Dio.


Thank you.

RE: Survivor winner donates all.....Awesome!

Didi....nice of you to share this. It might inspire others as well.

men's praise

Jac,

I am ready to sling mud at each other when you are.

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Friend....I think I would roll in the mud with Jac....it is all about equality in my book.

men's praise

Robert,

You are one very lucky gentlemen to be sharing such a wonderful prize with Ms. Cakes.

I would not suggest you two playing with them all at once, but maybe share one at a time to see which each of you might like. One might be better than the other while the other might one better than the other...and so on.


Pay per view is nice with all their taxes Robert. I will see if Jac might join....she kinda gave a soft no I see.

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Lee.

men's praise

Hello Sea,

I welcome everything you have brought here. It is very much appreciated. I have read both post twice and both have extreme relevance here. I hope others too take the time to read them as well.

Again, thank you very much.

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Snook

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Patti,

I should add...a man should not be out pursuing praise.

His main purpose in life is not to receive praise.

I think most men feel their purpose in life is to find love and reproduce. They don't go out any given day in their relationship thinking to themselves..."today, I am going to do something great to receive praise." No, it is not that. I think after a hard day of work providing and protecting their loved ones, they want to come home and know they are loved. And what I am saying is, an important way for a woman to display this love toward their man is to hand out praise once in awhile. I don't think she has to get down on her knees and cherish the ground he walks on...even though I don't think the man who loves her would mind. I am just joking a bit there. However, I just think he would not mind being appreciated. But women don't seem to like doing that.

But the video you shared Patti...with the wife expressing things she wished she knew when getting into a relationship...might shed some light on why that is.

That video...also points out some things that men may not realize either...men need to play a supporting role as well.

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Patti,

Your last comment is very valuable...and thank you for sharing it.

I have heard it said where feminism was being used as a form of manipulation. It is confusing though. Because initially feminism had some legitimate merits to it. Then, it morphed into something else and more extreme that is leading to the deterioration of society. From what I am hearing online, many women are beginning to learn and understand this.

I should add, this more extreme form of feminism is leading women to hate, envy, and/or disrespect men. A healthy relationship between a man and a woman is difficult to exist when one is predisposed to hate, envy, and or disrespect the other. Hard working and loving men do not deserve this sort of relationship dynamic and that is why they are being hesitant on even pursuing relationships these days.

Is it too late to change this?

Maybe...maybe not...

However, making people (men and women) aware of these issues might be a starting point in bringing back happy and healthy relationships.

Traits of a high value man...

Patty,

I think their advice would fit in any relationship, young or old.

Traits of a high value man...

Hello Patti,

I just watched the videos...and I must say they are amazing. Thank you for sharing them.

Traits of a high value man...

Kal,

If you recall, before feminism, women were a mystery.

Now after feminism, women are no longer so mysterious.

Traits of a high value man...

Dio....rules of high value

In fact Dio, believe it or not...women in general are responsible for these rules.

Traits of a high value man...

Robert....

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Hello Jac,

I have to say a big thank you to you.

All you are doing is validating this information that I am sharing....and again, I thank you for that.



Thanks Kal and Sea.

Traits of a high value man...

Shawn

Traits of a high value man...

oops.....*can be improved upon.

Traits of a high value man...

Thankfully though....many of these traits that people in general value....are things that cannot be improved upon by the individual.

Traits of a high value man...

I wish that were not the case...I wish I could have any super model I wish to have on any certain day. But, it don't work that way.

Traits of a high value man...

Here is the butter Friend.....

Traits of a high value man...

Jac,

I am going to tell you what I will do for you.

I am going to allow you to comment on any and all of my blogs all you want.

...which from what I understand...is much better than some other would even allow you to do.

I do respect some of the comments you makes...while the other ones, I will not even waste my time responding to them.

Thank you for your insightful non-biased comments. I look forward to more of them.