That is what I thought too back in the day...I didn't need any praise. But knowing now how the relationship ended, it might have been a sign of the temperature of the relationship. After hearing this latest podcast about praise...it could be an indicator of a lack of respect...or perhaps I was not deserving of any praise.
Patti, it was indeed a fruitcake. Here, I have something for you.
Robert, believe it or not...I have been with only one woman all my life. But I am sure one day that will change. I have had many opportunities...but...I think I might be too fussy. maybe not...maybe though.
You know...in public around here, I don't talk anything negative about my ex. Even though she has dramatically turned into a person I have no clue who she is now....her actions speak loud enough for her character, I don't have to say a single word.
I still respect her and our time together, but that is as far as it goes.
That makes sense what you say and I think there is a lot of truth in it.
I think this podcaster was talking about it as a positive for the male ego and for his own driven self determination in the world....but he also referred to it as somewhat a gauge too...as to whether or not just how into a woman is too.
Thank you all for your comments. I feel that the message shared in the original post has been heard and those of you who have heard it can make your own determination as to its merits.
For me, the message has opened my eyes a bit to be more careful in the vetting process when allowing somebody to enter your life on a personal level.
Sea, I do agree about the message of love in the Bible. Just because I decline to have somebody become a member of my personal life for traits they have that I do not value, does not mean I do not love them as a human being. The word toxic does not exist for nothing.
I hope others have found this blog of interest and of use.
If I were interested in dating you, we could converse with one another for a period of time where you could determine my SIGN for yourself. However, I am not trying to date a man.
I do appreciate your insight and thank you for sharing it.
We got a little off topic here and that is fine. This blog was intended to get the opinion on what KS identifies as a low value woman.
I thought it was worth while to share to open they eyes to those wishing to become involved in a relationship, and possible traits to be aware of.
Of course, this does not discount the traits of a low value man. I think someone shared a video on that as well...and I think that is equally important to be aware of too.
However, with men being primarily visual creatures....they should be aware that that shallowness could indeed get them in trouble with the wrong woman, and to be mindful of other traits as well.
I think Jac....if you cannot point out where they teach disliking women in the Bible, I think you have something else already determined in your mind. ...and my conversing with you in all for nothing. You think you have a point to prove (where men are being taught to dislike women....or...men just dislike women)...and you think that is what I am trying to share....
Which, to be outright honest with you....is NOT what I am doing here.
You are having me trying to defend a stance or a point of view that I am sharing....and it is a stance or a point of view I am not even trying to share.
I do not dislike women Jac...and I honestly thing KS does not dislike women.
I agree that people have to be careful with whom they associate and align themselves with. Not all are terrible people and not all are great people. But there are some out there worth aligning yourself with, only time tells who they are.
Thank you for your psychological breakdown of his presentation. Sincerely, very informative.
Does that display his knowledge though? He understands human nature of a deeper level than most? It could be...it could also point out that he is willing to go to deep levels for manipulation. It could be that as well.
However, does it discount the information that he is sharing about relationship dynamics?
...and to add a bit more complexity to the situation....
Human beings are social creatures....they want to be around other humans...and form relationships.
So, if they want to be part of a relationship, I would think they need to understand the dynamics of a relationship.
If they want to remain single, then fine....do as you wish. But if you want to be in a relationship, you need to share yourself...it is not "your way or the highway"...it is give and take and an element of selflessness has to come into play. It has to.
men's praise
Hello Friendship,That is what I thought too back in the day...I didn't need any praise. But knowing now how the relationship ended, it might have been a sign of the temperature of the relationship. After hearing this latest podcast about praise...it could be an indicator of a lack of respect...or perhaps I was not deserving of any praise.