One last question....and you do not need to answer it publicly. This question is meant for your own self introspection. Here it is. When is the last time you genuinely smiled at a man?
I think very wise of you...to listen to him a bit to get the whole gist of his viewpoint. I actually did the same. When I first listened to him, I found him to be a bit arrogant and harsh on people. I still think he is a bit harsh on people, but...it might be just the harsh truth of their situation.
I do agree, he stems all his beliefs from a traditional/Biblical standpoint. Also, I do agree, with the modern world, his belief is almost like oil and water. However, I will say, the traditional Biblical standard has worked up until a few years back for 1000's of years. I guess as the modern day experiment continues, we shall see which way is better.
You know Patty...I heard something very interesting about love.
So are you saying it is only me with "woman issues?"
If so, I am just going to keep my response to that fairly simple, rather than provide data and get into some long-winded response.
My hat is off to you then...if your woman life...and lives of all the men you know...is woman issue free.
*please note: I am not talking about all women here. I have seen and I do know some women who are great people and the men they are with are absolutely lucky to find such valuable women.
Here is just a side thought......and this would be used to verify or deny what KS is saying to some extent....
The data is already in front of us to prove whether or not KS is right....but unfortunately it would take about a month of some intense research...that is the downside.
I don't know for a fact, because obviously I have never done this. However, I would bet the evidence would support that men apologize more when they are wrong than women. All a person has to do is go through many blogs here and the comments to find out how many sincere apologies were handed out by men and women when they were wrong.
In addition Jac, how about being with a person who never apologies even when you know for a fact they are wrong. Would you value that in a relationship?
This is not about triggering anger within people either...it is an education that both help men and women.
I would also encourage women as well to listen to some of these things and see if it does not apply to their real life situations they are in right now.
I had the mindset as you too...where a man had to be a high value man to a woman. However, with that mindset, men are only setting themselves up to fail in the long run...with some women.
What I mean by that...women are always looking for the best man they can find. Let's say for example us as men be the best version of ourselves...that still does not stop our woman from seeking out a higher value man. And believe it or not, there will always be a higher value man. So the most recent saying I have heard holds true, "She is not yours, it is only your time."
I would encourage men to really listen to some of the things online breaking down women. I don't ask you to believe any of it...but if you have experience with women....I ask you keep and open mind to what you are hearing about women and see if it does not apply to your experience(s) with women or not.
I think men would be surprised.
By the way Grand, I have provide a link to the specific episode I am referring to in this blog.
I do agree with that. I always liked the idea of sharing and working together to tackle this thing called life. There really is no room in there for ego.
I think the Johnny Depp case was revolutionary for men, and I think that is why it was aired so widely for many to see.
I think us men have to be careful not to become manipulated ourselves. What I mean by this is not to develop any sort of bitterness or hatred....but instead, to keep that loving spirit alive within ourselves and allow whoever to be whoever they want to be. However, but we need to be informed and educated to the ways of the modern world not to get caught in one's web.
No problem Kal. The world is different than it was just a few years ago. There are beautiful people in the world...and there are some out there that only want to dominate others...for the sake of making themselves feel better.
I suggest that you and your Giant take a few minutes out of your day to watch the video that I have shared. You and him might get a better understanding about this blog.
I agree...traditional relationships...at least healthy ones...that is indeed the way it worked. Things of importance were discussed. However, today somebody wants to be The Boss....not the leader.
Robert...never fight with a woman about Eggos...or about anything for that matter...unless you like word salad that twists up the argument to the point where you are apologizing to her even when she was obviously wrong.
This blog is about giving away your power...in a sense of being a masculine man. However, as my list indicates, many modern women are demanding things from men that they were not even born with...or only a very few can obtain. Women are not dumb...they are very smart. They know this. One could interpret it as man hating in a different form...where they attack men on a personal level...where women know it hurts the most.
At least that is what they think because men are catching on to this technique.
Your idea of feminism is very limited. As I wrote years ago about this movement..and I asked...where does the demands of feminism stop? Back then nobody had any answer...but as we see today, feminism means something different to almost everyone who identifies as one. Some are grounded with moderate ideas as to what it is...some have some wild ideas...while others have been converted whole-heartedly and have become what they believe to an extreme.
Not to mention, it is not me who are saying men should not give their power away....this is just a reference to the video I have shared.
It is all over the internet about modern women. Nobody here has to take my word for it. In addition, in no way and I inferring all women either. I know some great loving women, that are not loud mouths with a huge ego.
Listening to Kevin Samuels....for the men...What is a low value woman...
Jac,One last question....and you do not need to answer it publicly. This question is meant for your own self introspection. Here it is. When is the last time you genuinely smiled at a man?