I do agree with you that sometimes it becomes hard to do than said...becoming more in tune with your inner being. I think first and foremost knowing the inner being is there, is the first start. If one does not know, one does not know to pursue.
I think a lot of people are being manipulated with the message we are being fed...a message that goes against our innate being.
...your doctor is a very smart guy....alcohol solves all issues (external issues I suppose).
You know...that video points out that there is something more to this life than just a physical existence. Have you ever got that curiosity? Where you felt our deeply questioned life and wonder if there is something more to it? If so, that thought came from somewhere. ...I would even go as far as saying you might even have had a feeling there was more to life. Maybe it is time to start paying more attention to that instead of the narrative we are being fed...thus manipulating us.
I read an interesting book by Manly P. Hall about astrology. I must say, he is a very deep and profound thinker. Not to mention, I just learned he was a 33 degree Mas..
It is a liberating feeling when you got your finances in order.
I think this blog aligns with Maslow's hierarchy of needs. As you conquer the lower needs, you innately continue up the needs ladder. Maybe Maslow paid attention to his inner being in order to formulate that theory.
That is possible about the reliability of eye witness accounts. I wonder if eye witness accounts were more accurate back in the day...being that a lot of knowledge was passed along this way.
That is what amazes me about the Bible, it seems to be timelessly relevant. That is why I believe what is written in the Bible is more than likely true...including the miraculous nature of Jesus.
I agree about judging people...and what do we know. However, I think, it depends on how close you are willing to let someone enter your life. The closer you are planning on being with them, the more you have to use clear judgement about them. What I mean by clear judgement, I mean with no biases...but real objective facts. I would even rule out using intuition to some extent.
You are also correct on not being able to trust the other person as well.
It is said that 20% of men are sleeping with 80% of the women. With that being said, there has to be at least some manipulation on the man's part in order to bed that many different women. So, I think that and some of the other traits you mention are also shared by men.
When it comes to nagging...
I was actually with a woman for 13 years and she did no nagging at all.
Hello Robert....nice seeing/hearing from you buddy by the way.
Women do self-project. They see the world only from their perspective and they project that perspective on to men. I would agree, that women are more intuitive than men...and can pick up on social cues much better than men. Men need to be told most of the time.
That is a great point...about women making it only about them.
You know, in the days of traditional relationships, it was only about the women. Honestly, as it should be...it should be about the woman and the child if there is a child involved.
Now days, with feminism, traditional relationships are far and few between. Men are still stuck in the traditional role they play in relationships, where many women these days are no longer traditional.
So, if a woman is still expecting to be treated as a traditional woman and she is not contributing to the relationship in a traditional way....you can see where she having her cake and eating it too comes into play.
Men need to understand this aspect of modern women.
Women will most likely be obsessed with a past partner...and "ex" they feel they made a mistake about leaving and that might come back to haunt a marriage down the road. So, the more men women have slept with, the more chances and ex...or exes...might come into play in a future relationship.
That goes the same way for women too...where a man only perceives them as a friend...but yet they are persisting the relationship goes a bit further than that.
Hmm...so a female not willing to help out a fellow human being. By the sounds of it, what you were carrying was quite heavy. Perhaps they felt they were not capable. But, I think we can probably dig up examples as well of men not helping women out in similar situations. So, I would conclude that this is a two way street....and not just a bad quality of a woman to a man.
I do not have a lot of time at the moment but I did want to address one comment here quickly.
Friendship...very smart of you to ask why?
There is a great answer for that question...but that answer will come much later after some additional responses. Until then, I would not be concerned if I were you on how to structure your response. I would just recommend you give one that you truly think or feel is correct.
Overcoming constraints..
Hello Friend,I do agree with you that sometimes it becomes hard to do than said...becoming more in tune with your inner being. I think first and foremost knowing the inner being is there, is the first start. If one does not know, one does not know to pursue.
I think a lot of people are being manipulated with the message we are being fed...a message that goes against our innate being.