There is a somewhat well known couple that...just up to a couple of months ago...operated their marriage like that. It was open on both sides.
First of all, an open marriage favors a woman much more than it does a man.
But anyway, this couple talked about how happy they were and all this good stuff....until recently. The wife is now divorcing him and trying to go after him for money...and he is now devasted.
Dani...I think society is still trying to find the solution to that.
But, women in general do indeed hold most of the cards in matters like this.
The only thing a woman really risk is dying alone and feeling empty when older.
I just watched a video on some eastern religion thingy (from India)...and they talked about how there is a tube or connection made between two people when they sleep together. This connection is suppose to last 12 years...from the last time they slept together. Anyway, that is the spiritual side of things. (might be too serious for you).
I do remember that Ms Heart. If I remember right, she eventually got booted off here. A lot got booted eventually. Do you ever think that you might have been the cause of that...with this blog?
Heck...if you were put on the list. I remember some sexy photos you showed me. :)
When a woman sleeps with a guy, there is a chemical released in her brain that creates a bond between her and him.
The guy does not have that happen. Although, I hear people that don't sleep around...men and women both, do have a bond that creates after sleeping together for the first time.
The more "bodies" people sleep with, the bonding reaction is reduced.
Another reason why women with high body counts are less able to maintain relationships.
Yes Dani...I have watched some of her stuff before.
Sleeping around has different psychological effects between men and women.
One could argue that women like a guy with a higher body count...it means he has experience in the bedroom. ....but of course, not too high...say like over 1000 people he slept with.
A guy does not look at it the same way with women.
In my book, cheating is cheating. Have you ever been cheated on?
Here is another reason why women do not apologize to their man...
Because, (this is true...as illogical as it may sound)....women look at their current man, I am trying to be careful here with describing this...
Okay...lets put it this way. To a woman, a man is a man is a man. So if a woman has some past traumas with men...say men in their past that mistreated them...they will carry that memory or memories forward into the future and apply them to any future men they may date or get in a relationship with.
That is one of the reasons why "body count" matters with a woman. ....meaning, how many men has a woman slept with. The higher the amount of men a woman slept with....generally means the less likely she is able to maintain a relationship. In fact, it has been scientifically studied, a woman with...I think it is over 5 people she slept with....has an 80% of getting divorced.
What man in his right mind would want to gamble on marriage with a woman like that when on a legal level, marriage is such a bad deal for men?
That is 1 of the reason why people need to educate themselves. I was told once...knowledge is power.
Power can be used for the good or for the bad. But when used for good....good things happen.
Fargo, I had to skip on the 9 ball portion of the tournament yesterday. I won it the last time...I was really looking forward to playing this time but I was literally sweating just trying to stand up. Not to mention, with my illness, I could not even think or focus.
Today I feel great compared to yesterday. I am taking my daily dose of medicine right now, so I suspect I will be feeling closer to 90% today for the 8 ball portion of the event. I am happy I went home yesterday and got extra rest.
oh yeah Dani....I feel just about like a brand new person this morning. I am having my morning coffee and I feel about 80% better. It looks like I will be making it to my tournament today after all. :)
I think I have heard that once too...about having their face on.
That hat thing I have never heard of before. I do recall seeing pictures of days before me, it always did fascinate me seeing that every man was wearing a hat. I guess it would make sense with what you say.
Dani...that is where I heard it... ...from Rogan. You are the red-ist flag ever?? Oh....perhaps. You do OF then. Have you made over 57 million dollars then?
You did touch on many of the underlying reasons why many women never apologize. But it is said that many are borderline narcissist.
BTW, I did try to have a conversation with her on several occasions about stuff like that...in the end, it came back to being on me.
Have you apologized to any men you have dated Dani? ....a genuine apology? I cannot say I have ever heard a genuine apology from a woman. Well, there was this one time I actually did get one....10 years later.
Asian countries are pretty extreme Dani. But, I was sorta right with my question though. Like you mentioned about your tons of beauty products, it helps with your "confidence"...hence battling your insecurities.
Anyway, my mind is still kinda messed up from my illness...although I think I have about 50% of it back.
Dubai is pretty fancy CH. I bet you will have a lot of fun there. No, I didn't make it to Bohol. :/
Yes, Chicago not only got the cold but they got tons of snow down there as well. We are suppose to get some nice weather coming up at the beginning of the week. I suspect your shipment will be back on track then. Boy, you have a tough job dealing with all that anger and frustration.
I know the answer already to this question...I am curious as to hearing your opinion.
Why do, many women..I mean a lot of them...not apologize to their man for their misdeeds...and to top it off, why are they "master shift-blamers?" Meaning, they did something wrong and they blame it on you for doing it.
who gets their way? men ... or ....women?
or is it wiping?You see, I am not even serious about spelling either.