Hi Cat, Good blog indeed. All my life I was surrounded with people who seemed to be my friends and who I thought were my friends.I never borrowed money from them -they did,I never asked for help-they did and I was happy to help.When my husband got seek with cancer and we had to fight it,all so called friends slowly drifted away and I was left on my own.Through all this difficult 5yrs I learned the most valuable lessons the only person you can rely on is yourself,you should love and respect yourself and be your own best friend ...but Bearing this in mind I still respect the others,trying to do my best if asked for help ,support,advice,even money( if have some:-)not expecting anything in return. I got some new friends,People who were not my friends and helped me when I even did not ask...and I do not carry my past disappointments with me ,let it go. I have one best friend - myself and a price on the tag attached to this friendship is very very high. Have a good day and all the best.
Hi Catfoot Great blog I met someone I like We did not talk on line,just arranged a meeting as both believe that internet dating site is only a way to meet people in real life. We both had experience of long emailing and liking someone but being disappointed when met. Four dates and sparks are still there we will see So...there is always a hope but it happens when least expected for sure Lots of love and good luck!
Happy Birthday Wallops!!! May your birthday and every day be filled with the warmth of sunshine, the happiness of smiles, the sounds of laughter, the feeling of love and the sharing of good cheer.
Ahhhh...Mimi Just back home,had a third date I definitely can add the 2nd to the 3d,lots of laughing... Hoping for the 4th... one day soon All The details in my blog shortly... Wishing everyone the best of luck
We all finally go Home,and it is up to us to believe or not. When you lost someone close to you... It is okay to miss them. It is okay to cry. Grieving is a part of the life experience. It will last as long as it lasts... I was crying...only now I fully realized that I was crying about myself... live without him ?How???... For him it was just the time to go Home. Cry,Namaron,cry.
Hi Usha Thanks very nice Love is more than a feeling and we all know it... unconditional commitment ,kindness and respect,holding into each other and give each other the most we can. I have experience of a relationship that was not ideal or perfect,with its ups and downs but a very happy one,he was not perfect but very right for me. If you found The One,try to make it last. Good Luck to everyone
I guess that I'll keep the old one As I said...in...my...wise thoughts there is no "good " or "bad", it is how we take it... No nice man for me anyway Going to bed...may be in my dreams
Love you I think that I should change my nickname from secretbox to cursebox...may be witchbox??? we already have a witch from Ireland not good the men might decide that all women in Ireland are witches
There is a difference how we feel about ourselves and how the others see us...I think. He is not the right one for you and he might be the right one for somebody else. Good Luck in finding the right one
RE: Friends With A Price Tag
Hi Cat,Good blog indeed.
All my life I was surrounded with people who seemed to be my friends and who I thought were my friends.I never borrowed money from them -they did,I never asked for help-they did and I was happy to help.When my husband got seek with cancer and we had to fight it,all so called friends slowly drifted away and I was left on my own.Through all this difficult 5yrs I learned the most valuable lessons the only person you can rely on is yourself,you should love and respect yourself and be your own best friend ...but Bearing this in mind I still respect the others,trying to do my best if asked for
help ,support,advice,even money( if have some:-)not expecting anything in return.
I got some new friends,People who were not my friends and helped me when I even did not ask...and I do not carry my past disappointments with me ,let it go.
I have one best friend - myself and a price on the tag attached to this friendship is very very high.
Have a good day and all the best.