RE: Not Sure If I'm Confused

Tell me what you know about that document and why you object to it.

RE: Pig

Umm...he was called Pig.

RE: Not Sure If I'm Confused

You can't have equality without everyone being equal.

You can't have inclusivity if some people are excluded.

If I were to exclude the group you've labelled as 'the usual suspects' and view them as unworthy, am I behaving any differently from those who exclude the lgbtq+ community with ridicule?

If I only spend time with people who reinforce my views, how will I learn and progress without challenge?
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RE: Thinking without deciding

Because people living outside die of cold in the winter.

I imagine some cities in Canada have instituted that law to keep the death rate down from landlords turfing tenants out with a complete disregard for their welfare, or where they might go next.

As a landlord you have ethical and legal responsibilities. Tenants are not disposable commodities, nor are they lodgers for your lifestyle convenience.

RE: Dog fires rifle and kills man...

Generally, I tend to believe the opposite: people are usually careless, bumbling fools rather than scheming masterminds.

I just picked up on the satellite information and it's implications.

RE: Dog fires rifle and kills man...

Why did the article say, "It's not known if the vehicle was moving at the time"?

It's what Gavin de Becker would call satellite information.

If the only current evidence is the testimony of the surviving witness, establishing that the vehicle was moving at the time corroborates the driver's story. He couldn't drive and shoot the passenger from the back seat at the same time.

I imagine there'll be a whole load of skid mark, foot print and other forensic investigation going on.

RE: Patriot...

You said that children and trams scare you, never mind a mob with weapons calling for people to be hanged coming at you like a tsunami.

How 'undermanned' are you? laugh

And if you're that 'undermanned', what right have you to minimise the experiences of those men and women who actually faced that danger?

RE: False advertising, that's what it is..

I don't think it's that difficult to make you're own.

Once you've made up a big jar of your spice mix, most of the work is done.

You just need an oven baked recipe rather than a deep fried one.

RE: Patriot...

So, are saying now that it wasn't scary for the out numbered police?

If my memory serves me correctly, that scene escalated quite a bit as more people entered the area. The police were aware that was going to happen because of the mob outside and more and more people pouring in to the building.

I recall watching an interview with some of the police officers who quite frankly still seemed a bit twitchy. They were scared for their lives as that scene escalated.

I really don't think it's fair, nor appropriate to minimise the trauma and compare it to a tram going past you in the street.

RE: Patriot...

I doubt it, but people died, some were injured and some traumatised.

Does that effect you at all?

RE: It’s not only WHAT you say, but also HOW you say it…

I really, really hope that next time you're sweeping leaves, you'll laugh.

Your neighbours will think you've come unhinged, but it'll be more fun for you. laugh
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RE: It’s not only WHAT you say, but also HOW you say it…

I think my response to that would be, "Okay, let's discuss me ditching you and we'll see if the final decision is yours. Ooops, too late, Tortoise-toes." talk to hand

I'll leave you guess at what I'd be thinking and feeling. laugh
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RE: Alec Baldwin: Rusted...

Which then begs the question about training actors and maintaining some kind of licence.

You perhaps can't hold actors responsible unless they've been trained, their contracts state their responsibility and it's a legal requirement to do the above.

RE: Funny story about a greedy police officer...

Well spotted, there's no...

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...but I can't find any German Shepherd's looking guilty.

It seems they have no remorse. dunno

RE: Funny story about a greedy police officer...

The dude is 6'8" according to his mugshot.

I think all charges and sandwiches should be dropped very quickly.

RE: Alec Baldwin: Rusted...

I really don't know what to make of that.

I guess we'll find out more at the inevitably highly publicised trial.

RE: Winning the lottery - again.

You pay over 57 dollars a month to play and the maximum you can win is 290 dollars?

In five months you can save 290 dollars by not playing.

Or am I confused by our respective cultural meanings of commas and full stops with respect to numbers?

I'm certainly confused. laugh

RE: Things no longer on CS

Seeking 18-99 indicates no preconceived age parameters, but not necessarily no parameters at all.

A lot of rational and reasonable people prefer not to make arbitrary decisions in advance just because a dating site format promotes that kind of prejudice.

Bear in mind, 18-99 also means old enough to be his mother. laugh

RE: With THIS blog, I'm risking an injury

I was going to offer to help, but I'm no expert at this sort of stuff.

I just didn't want you to feel unsupported and I'm glad you have friends who are helping.

And yes, no news is good news, even though no news is painful and emotionally tiring. hug

Nam survived Nam, so he must be pretty skilled at surviving. Some people are just plain clever at that sort of stuff.

RE: Things no longer on CS

On topic, I miss the instant messaging feature.

I had some enjoyable and very funny conversations in that medium, especially with young Asian men who were trying it on with older Western women, but never rude, or crude. Always polite, always made me laugh, never succeeded. laugh

There was the chat room as well, but I didn't venture there before it was removed.

RE: With THIS blog, I'm risking an injury

I didn't think for one minute that you 'lashed out' in a bad way.

It's just obvious that you are troubled by Nam being in danger, the fact that no one appears to have heard from him and the impact it's having on his family and friends.

At the beginning of this blog you asked for help to try and track Nam with a link someone passed on to you. Has anyone helped you with that?

RE: If CS suddenly closed their site...

My spelling would deteriorate. laugh

RE: Another Tesla nightmare...

I catch a bus. laugh

RE: With THIS blog, I'm risking an injury

Just because people don't keep sending best wishes doesn't mean they're not thinking of Nam and hoping he's okay.

A part of that it seeing this blog pop up from time to time to remind us of his journey in amongst all the other things that command our attention.

What he's doing, or has done is clearly his passion and purpose and I'm pleased he has that. It would just be nice to hear that he's okay, even if he doesn't wish to share any of his experiences.

RE: SOFTIE…

Nah, tough as old boots, me.

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RE: Another Tesla nightmare...

I've watched the videos and I don't understand.

Although it's not ideal for a car to come to a stop like that, in the UK the fault is with the driver who goes into the back of another car.

I don't drive myself, but if the 9th, 10th, etc. cars can stop and not become a part of the pile-up, what happened with the 2nd-7th cars?

Maybe the video has been slowed for clarity, but is it possible that at least some of the 2nd-7th drivers were not paying as much attention as they should have?

Given the controversy about using language that implies assisted driving technology is synonymous with driverless technology it all seems a bit muddled to me. Cars suddenly coming to a stop is not a unique phenomenon, neither is a less than alert driver. We don't blame all cars of one type every time there is an accident and we don't assume fault without an investigation of what actually happened.

Is this really about reporting a glitch in the technology, or is there an element of knocking Elon Musk of his pedestal in the way this has been presented?

RE: Today's been one of those days..

What will you do if things aren't up and running tomorrow?

In my experience in all sorts of jobs, it means spring cleaning duty. sigh laugh

RE: This woman's remedy for depression is NOT for the lazy.

However culturally popular it is, it's counterproductive to associate depression with laziness.

Berating people with depression (even indirectly like this) is about as sensible as telling people off for having cancer as a cure.

Tim Cantopher in his book Depression: The Curse of the Strong, proposes that those people who constantly push themselves are more likely to experience depression which is essentially a manifestation of physical and emotional exhaustion. It's well documented that (extra) sleep alleviates traits of depression and is advocated as an aspect of mainstream therapies. Tiredness and a lack of motivation are traits of depression for a reason, or number of reasons: it's a big part of the illness.

I'm glad this technique worked for Jess Mell, but she would have been in a place of fairly mild depression/recovery in order to do all these new things. I'd also be interested in how things go for her long term and whether it truly has been a 'cure', or whether pushing herself to the extreme is just part of the cycle.

I'm not knocking new activities and interests as part of creating change and improvements in depressive traits, but this extreme technique seems to be perfectly flawed, or possibly a tad on the hypomanic side.

Y'know, people may feel great when they're experiencing a manic phase of bipolar disorder and can be absolutely adamant that they've simply returned to a blessed 'normal'.

RE: Surrounded by her family...

I don't think it's all that unusual for palliative care to be brief, nor for manageable failing to tip to a cascade of failed.

And of course, once that point has been reached, family gather to say their farewells.

RE: Scary nature of relationships

It is when you choose to learn from someone who is teaching others how to be toxic, you can't see it for yourself and you won't accept being told by people who are genuinely looking out for you.

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