Yes I ended up homeless, jobless and pennyless whilst he swanned around in his big house with no mortgage entertaining his many girlfriends.
Eventually and several years later he tried to lay claim to the only thing left to me when it matured, but amazingly the courts stepped in with no prompting from me and told him to sling his hook!
I rebuilt and I'm proud to say that ten years on I'm entirely back on my feet and can hold my head high with a lot of self respect.
He doesn't have me so he has the greatest loss.
To all the kind folk who considered their 'not so' better half before themselves!
I can remember at 19 when pregnant with my first child my husband lifting me up and plonking me in front of the kichen sink saying that's where you belong!
We're all the same underneath and I think that most normal people know that. If they don't then they're not normal.
I put up a blog asking what is intelligence. At the end of the day it only relates to what our particular needs are as we all have different desires and are stimulated by different things.
Be yourself and live and let live is the only way in my opinion.
Of course you like smoking as you're trapped but you'd like it more if you free but I guess you'll never know? Sadly smoking has always been an issue if in a relationship.
I have some horrific memories of intensive care when my mum was there for liver cancer.
RE: Nice from far - far from nice?
Home is where family resides and that family can come in many guises!It is not always easy to draw oneself away permanently and often any lame excuse will be used to avoid the real reason.