LonelyfromAfrica Blog Comments (302)

It is time for me to go....

Dear All ...

Your efforts keeping me here is greatly appreciated. Think we all need to make wise decisions as to what brings us joy and what gives us faith in the human race. With exceptions (YOU), this site is a typical reflection of our human race... sad, but it is true... games we play and also a system tolerating this...

Real life, we can't always decide with what we are prepared to deal with... on this site we can... I don't walk back in old footsteps and will not be back again... Call me a coward, but I rather walk away and keep sanity in my life than tolerating this and loosing faith in the Human race on a daily bases.

However, to all of you who made me smile and provided comfort ... God bless, life has a strange way with all of us... maybe, just maybe our paths will cross again somewhere else...

Lots of sincere heartfelt wishes
J from SA

What your definition of co existence ...?

Thanks Mrs Itchy ...My legs are not strong enough to fly ... yet...

What your definition of co existence ...?

@ Pedal man ... not to worry... I nearly got confused with my own blog

@ My Mrs Itchy ... I suppose not... but we are also aware of the twist things can take at times... so maybe I need to leave it here ...

@ Lucky man... yeah, you have a point there ... If I could fly...away...

What your definition of co existence ...?

Cc ... you asked and I provided you with the answer as to what prompted my blog... My question remains ... do we have the right to question other bloggers (consequently there could be fake profiles), or should we accept and walk away the moment information doesn't add Up and resistance is experienced? Should we thus eat all information just for the sake to coexist on this Site?

What your definition of co existence ...?

Both ....Point is... If we are expected to coexist without questioning information that doesn't make sense, we are also expected to tolerate fake profiles... ?

What your definition of co existence ...?

Eish Mrs Itchy... one big argument and then the profile disappeared... you missed something ... so fake... I suppose refers to fake pictures and information in that profile...

@ Cc ... you are also one heck of a brave woman and Biff is really funny ... thank you... yeah, my blog was prompted by a request in a previous blog to coexist despite the 'fake' profile and referring to the Trilling experience

What your definition of co existence ...?

Eish Sands ... now it makes sense... no wonder so many guys block girls from SA... and we usually need to ask you guys to open for us before we can contact you... I am disappointed for the people in my own country...

What your definition of co existence ...?

Also explain to me how one of our colleagues could expected me/us to have learned something from the Trilling Experience? ... did I miss Something?

What your definition of co existence ...?

But guys...and girls ... explain to me how a seem to be legitimate profile (a member who are known to most of us for some time now), could come up for a so called fake profile... I just don't get this...

What your definition of co existence ...?

All of a sudden this sheep debate we had a couple of months ago really starts to make sense

What your definition of co existence ...?

Mr Pedal man ... you are special.... me neither

What your definition of co existence ...?

Maybe I need to provide more context for my question... on the CS site... If we are requested to coexist ... what does this mean...? Does it mean that we can not question other bloggers in cases where information doesn't add Up?

What your definition of co existence ...?

Hey Sands ... so, you say coexistence implicate the scope to discuss, debate and to grow ...?

What your definition of co existence ...?

So is co exist like a dog and cat... We tolerate, and don't kill...but also do not try to be any friends or to develop any common ground...

What your definition of co existence ...?

Shouldn't the intent be to understand and accept although there could be differences...? If you can't debate or discuss... and learn to respect differences, how on earth will there be personal Growth?

RE: I'm lonely, BUT...

I agree... I am rather alone and except this... compared to having someone and having expectations... only to find that I am alone in any event... The latter is a terrible loneliness as it also encompasses bitterness... no thanks...

RE: I'm lonely, BUT...

Mr Greece... she didn't say she is scared for men... she is careful taking a wrong one...

RE: I'm lonely, BUT...

True... ... but we need support and someone to be there for us when we need them most... In the mean time get some good friend you can lean on when you are feeling depressed and lonely... no man is an island...We need a good friend even if it is for us to sometimes get a bit of perspective when the going yet though...

RE: "LET IT ROLL"("DOWN THE HIGHWAY")(6)

My wishes for you...May you have a safe trip, meet a stunning woman on your way 'home' and may you find another job opportunity that will allow you to travel less and to be 'home' more often...

RE: "AGGRAVATION"

I am not going to do something... I am doing it already.... I life a full life and make the best of everything thing I can... I am content with who I am and with what I am adding in my immediate environment...

RE: a wonderful day

Also a warm hearted Happy birthday all the way from SA... may you have an awesome year ....

Empathy with men....

And true... there is a lot of discrimination on these sites... I would love to look at staged male pictures too ... tight buts, six packs in skimpy jeans... Now on my side I only have adverts of girls and 'Anna ' who wants to chat with me...

Empathy with men....

Regarding the 'empty' desirable profiles... someone has to fund these adverts... and the fact that there are so many of these profiles for so long ... tells me that it is a feasible business with lots of gullible men out there...

Empathy with men....

Wonder how many males feel flattered when a stunning young girl (at least what they can see on the picture) contact them or even reply to their emails... although the intent is not necessarily to meet that girl or to date her...ego thing...

Empathy with men....

Hey Roomie ... I understand your intent and agree, but since males are visual creatures, I think your dating site would be 'maleless'

Empathy with men....

Have to leave my blog unattended for a while... Will be back later again...

Empathy with men....

@ Ed... as a male... didn't the attention of this stunning girl created a bit of expectation of ...maybe what if it is real...?

Empathy with men....

@ Track... ... you are lucky ... All these pretty pictures could really through a guy off track ...

Empathy with men....

@ Ken... true..., but don't you think all these pictures could affect our males in the dating World?

RE: Money, Money, Money

Cake... ... now you are cooking girl... remember to make sure Sol can do cleaning and cooking...never know if he would manage to cost you more money by burning the house down...