Maybe you're looking in the wrong place. Come off dating sites and join local groups, maybe join an online epilepsy group and chat to like minded people and arrange a meetup. Not having a partner is not a reason to give up.
Women compete over beauty and men. Maybe teenage girls, but I can assure you that I, nor my close group of friends compete with any women over beauty or a man.
It always amuses me when I read men posting about what they believe to be true when it comes to women. It most instances they couldn't be further from the truth.
Because most of us Irish ladies wear 5 layers of clothing at a time, that includes bedroom attire, they haven't a chance of getting a glimpse of flesh from us.
Always compliment, whisper sweet nothings. But those late night conversations, talking about everything and nothing are just as important, never lose that.
RE: Is the real truth being hidden?
Because nothing matters til it matters.