She practically 'measures you for a shroud'.. hahah.. that made me laugh a lot!.
How about telling her you have met a man on CS and are about to elope to get married.. That you have changed your mind about being sicky, and thought you might give marriage a go instead?
That might give her something else to think about.. that, or tell her you are pregnant.
I posted a special piccy for you on your FB page earlier.
It's good you went to meet up with him though, it made a few things a little clearer for you. Like affirming you don't miss him, you are not really bothered much about staying in touch via email etc.
From what I have read (and seen).. you are a very beautiful person inside and out. The world is your oyster and you have a lifetime of fabulous opportunity ahead of you. Some of which would have probably been greatly reduced had you still been with him.
RE: Visiting Vulcan
OOo laalaaaaa!!and looking good Bev!
he is tall! Nice couple