Like you I seek someone to share all the good things with and thought that it would be easy because I know myself so well at this stage in my life. Unfortunately I am finding it harder as I won't just settle for anyone! But you know what, better to be picky, alone and happy than just settle, doing myself and the man involved a discredit. Good luck with your search and whether you find your "special someone " or remain single, be happy!
RE: Would you be the guy who pulls a wanting woman out of a relationship?
Totally agree, your kids won't thank you for it later!