hy celtic good to see you sorry about fridge etc, done it myself before all night off, but enough in freezer thank goodness for nothing to thaw out. Hope you saved plenty.
All good my end thought about moving again but nailed my toes to floor so will stay here .
Dont get what is wrong with people paying respects to a queen, a dedicated lady all her life, even to last two days whilst she saw an old PM out and welcomed new one in. Her family like many others put her through the mill, our trials were not in full view though in full view. If folk want to queue for that length of time so be it, they chat together so the respect is happening long before they see coffin. R.I.P our Queen
yonik my solution used to be (move). new friends new area to explore. New wild life pictures to take. I have done that most of my life.
When one gets bored, or bogged down with bad happenings i moved. It kept me young too ( I think) when you get bored with same as same as you age. Keep the brain active with new activities etc.
Bad memories i envisaged my brain like a computer stored bad memories in locked files no need to go over things we cannot change, ---learn yes but that be that.
Does not suit all though i understand , but your writing could expand keeping your mind busy and looking forward.
Me i am well prepared, bond bought and have changed it when first making to pure cremation. My sons at either side of country must split my ashes and drop them in the sea i can move around as much as i did in life.
Boxes labeled for both boys which i would like them to have as memories, the rest they can do as the please. Charity shop would be good.
That be that it is hard enough as you say for family left behind without having to go through all of that.
All i know my grandma died peacefully as she believed in a God. I have known a few folk who are strong firm believers who live a more life of calm.
I have also known a believer who thought she knew a god but at time when she needed that god he did not appear, she had a horrible despairing death.
Me i say whatever floats your boat to get through this life.
Me, my boat floats alone in this big ocean of life, the waves crash sometimes madly other times the crashing of the waves brings a peace. Of course i always can hug a tree or three and bliss
RE: With THIS blog, I'm risking an injury
Bless you is all i can say. If we cannot support deserving people on here well the world comes to an end