I'm sure you're right CW, but for me, every little bit helps. I'm not the brightest bulb in the bunch (esp. with relationships) so, listening to, looking at AND reading about other perspectives have been helpful.
"But the problem is , in my experience so far I've found that , even if it's just the natural part of the personality of a girl that she thinks like a Gentleman , most men would just feel somehow Uncomfortable to accept it. May be it's just natural for men to feel Uncomfortable with a girl who thinks out of the box against the flow !! AND I guess , in Most cases , The same applies for the opposite (Men thinking like a Lady) type of situation too."
I agree with your perspective, Tanzila. That is quite possible, especially if her actions seem obvious. It is only a wise and skilled woman that could 'camouflage' her true inner thinking with her outward actions, consistently.
If you're serious, just google the following: 1. How to make a Trini coconut bake 2. How to make a Trini saltfish buljol 3, How to make a Trini cocoa tea
Wow, a dinner request? Freshly-baked coconut bake (a semi-flattened round coconut bread), with stewed salted codfish, and a hot cup of cocoa tea (aka just 'cocoa') or hot chocolate.
This topic really got me thinking, and I've realized that I had forgotten any 'good' that I may have learnt from my ex-husband.
He was good at fixing things (I think), and he showed me how to 'revive' a fan when it stops working - put some oil in the motor. That has worked 9 out of 10 times for me.
Unfortunately, with much ado, I have given up on this dream (for now). I finally listened to the "Gods" and accepted the fact that I didn't have the patience to 'fight' with a stick shift.
However, I'm hoping that in the very near future, there will be enough automatic transmission Class 4 vehicles available for me to avoid having to be trained with a manual vehicle. Then may try again.
Thinking like a man….?
I'm sure you're right CW, but for me, every little bit helps. I'm not the brightest bulb in the bunch (esp. with relationships) so, listening to, looking at AND reading about other perspectives have been helpful.