i am in full agreement with all that you say.i fail to undersatnd why people block others witjout even sharing their views or their choices with others and claim to be on an international dating site??
a lengthy blog but very well put.i guess most people here are looking to connect, some may get the subtle hints but others might not be so intellectually evolved and might need a nudge in the right direction,still others may prefer the caveman routine and they are the ones who are hardest hit by a negative response. but i guess we are all grownups here and i think its perfectly normal that a person should answer the other party with a clear yes/no right after the first contact so that it does not hit the affected party too much, as not much effort or emotions have been spent on the endeavour. however the initial polite response and a few more sweet notes before you dump the person sure does hurt the "dumped" but then as they say "you got to take the rough with the smooth"and we should sportingly accept whats been dished to us and move on.
RE: GUYS from America
lol!!!!! you do have a temper lady !