I have not had a chance yet to read about the crash, but whether or not there will be any survivors would depend on the plane's velosity at the point of impact.
It would be miraculous to find any survivors as this seldom is the case. All we can do is hope.
Hi and welcome. I am surprised the no one else has beaten me to respond here. Oh well, maybe I will start a trend. LOL.
I did check out your profile to get an idea who you are. You sound very nice and I think if you give things time you will meet someone on here who suits you. Patience is the key.
I am sure there are guys with all the right stuff out there. Perhaps they are too shy to let themselves be known. I generally attract the not so nice guys who try to act like a prince until once you get to know them. It is sad that all men are judged based on a few bad seeds, but women are also judged the same way.
It has been my experience that I would think all the good men are either married or dead.
Very well written. I live by the same philosophy in my own life. Rather than shut down it is better to use what you experience as a learning tool for a new opportunity.
I fully agree that appearances mean everything to many people. It is not typical for me to send an email to anyone and why bother when most of the time they are ignored.
Another thing is when people do view your profile and then never bother to contact you. There may be things you have in common with them, but since I am raising my 3 yr. old granddaughter this seems to be such a turn off. Jeez, it is like I am hunting for someone to help me raise her. NO thank you! I know this is a major factor because until I mentioned her I would get some responses, then it might be over how my legs look.
Anyone who has a problem with your opinion need to take a good look at themselves and ask how many times are they ever called upon. This is not a pity party, but a fact and those who see it as such I am certain have had a few parties of their own.
My philosophy is that all the good men are either married or dead.
I have wondered about this many times myself. How can you put a time on a relationship before you have one, and once it begins how can you determine how long it will last? I suppose that many of us who may say "long term" are just sharing what we would like to see happen. Few of us want to go into something new, invest a part of ourselves only to have it end within a short time. Relationships take time and care to build upon them. It just may be that for those who would want a "short term" relationship want things to last for the laughs and perhaps they do not have the capacity to withstand something longer due to their sense of boredom or perhaps a fear of becoming too involved. If any of us should be blessed with an opportunity to develop a relationship we should cherish it. Take great care with it and see where it may lead. What you put into it is what you may expect in return.
I must say that your reasons are profound. I have studied many in your age category who all want to find someone to become serious with and get married. Why when you have so much growing to do emotionally would anyone wish to dig into something so deep. Experience more in life than you already have. Making new friends is not a bad thing. Getting away from your neighborhood for new points of view is also beneficial. So have I fogotten what youth is as it has been suggested? Not at all, I have lived life in the fast lane and it did not bring on any more happiness although I did meet someone from out of state. My point of study was to understand why people in a young age group feels a need to become serious not why they are on this site at all. I would like to pass on some advice though. Don't be disappointed if the results you hope to acquire do not come to fruition. Go on and further your education, get some living in before you find yourself married with a family by the time you are 20 or so. There is no shame in playing the field. I was married at 18, had two children by the time I was 23 and divorce at 26 with two young children to raise alone. The story I had going in did nothing to prepare me for that. I would give the same advice about not rushing in to those who are over 40 and feel a sense of loss after a divorce and afraid of growing older alone. The truth is that there is life after 40 and many besides myself have learned the key to doing that. I will finish by saying, I wish you well in your search for happiness and may you find it.
Well here is something I have been wondering about. Why do people as young as yourself feel a need to join a singles site to meet someone? It would seem that at a young age people are easy to come by. For those who have been through marriages, kids and life's trials do not want to go through the bar scene to hook-up. People are harder to meet who have been down the same pathways and can relate to what we go through. Maybe you can shed some light on what is behind the need of a teen ager or above to look for someone special. I have seen more and more new members all under the age of 25 looking for something serious. That too is something I wonder about. Why is it essential to move through life so quickly when the percentage rate of divorces at that age is quite high? If you have some insight for the rest of us, it would help to understand the mindset of this age grouping.
I lost someone who was very close to me when I was 11 and he was 9. It was tragic in itself, but I carried guilt over that for more than 30 yrs. I could not talk about what happened or even bring up his name. My thing was in blaming myself for not being there to prevent what happened. I started counseling in 2003 to deal with being bipolar and through that I was able to come to terms with what happened. What happened that day set my disorder in motion, but Dr's knew nothing about bipolar disorder then. His birthday and the day the accident took place was the worst time for me. I was unconsciously falling apart until the day passed. What I have learned is that things cannot always be controlled by us no matter how methodically we may live our lives. I have also learned that what is most important is that I was there for him up until that fateful day. That was all I could possibly do for him. The experience taught me to accept the things I cannot change without the burden of guilt.
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RE: plane crash
I have not had a chance yet to read about the crash, but whether or not there will be any survivors would depend on the plane's velosity at the point of impact.It would be miraculous to find any survivors as this seldom is the case. All we can do is hope.