Hey all.. Emily, Jack, Stevano, Drea, Thanx for posting your comments. Miss Lookingfor.. No worries :) Im glad that you expressed yourself here on my blog..
Mr. Dadvic, Sir, you seem not getting the point, I cant help much about it.. Your happiness is the most important thing to you, and I don’t envy it or dispute it..Not at all. If you were able to find a 22yr old love in your own country and neighbourhood, without having to fly across many oceans, I would have given a lot more credit to you. Hehehe. but what’s the importance of my credit to you! However, I trust that at your age, you must be knowing the right thing to do!!
To tell you all the truth, im kind of bored and not in a mood to write notes to each of you… I have much more to talk on this issue, in my mind, but.. yeah.. sometimes I lose interest in writing .. so will catch u all some other time..
Moonstone..what is a camera weeding? Never heard of it.. hehehe..
Ohhh….does it sound funny? I mean my comments? I wanted to be serious about all these stuff, but now I can see that I sound ridiculous. :( Im so upset about this now.
Moonstone, Mr CT seems to be the hero and the Blog God here and I’m privileged to have been able to address a comment or two to him .. don’t tell anyone I told you, just keep this as a secret. I’m just trying to over-take the number of gorgeous ladies who are writing comment after comment, even without getting a bit of sleep in the wee hours, to respond to his blogs and comments... Now you know why i write like that. hehehe.. Just keep it to yourself ok.
hehe.. moonstone.. Its ok not telling about the guy, but pls send me an invitation for the wedding ok. :) i will bring you an elephant and some good ceylonese tea as wedding gifts :)
by the way, what are those emorticons? Sorry for being ignorant, i nver bothered to learn the possible use of those. Will u conduct a class on emorticons when u hav a lil time. :)
No CT, unfortunately me and Sir Sunset55 will be an odd couple, coz im so bad in time managment. There can be chaoes like me making coffee for him using chilled water instead of hot water.. Trust me, it can be that bad :( But i always respect senior citizens who have amazing skills and i giv them due respect..
By the way..dont you worry CT darling i will always ask your permission before i send any flowers to anyone on this site...heheheh
This is the best blog I read, may be in the last 168hrs. Mr. Sunset55, I hope that with such a positive workaholic attitude, it’s always sunrise and never a sunset for you. I must say that you seem a very methodical person who plans ur day as well as the other’s. By doing that, if anyone tells u that you sound a bit weird, don’t take any notice. Coz, some ppl envy methodical disciplined people for no reason and might try to tell you that your approach to women is wrong. But trust me. you will do well in life. It is very important that you put down your time-table in order to minimize disappointment of any prospective partner. In-fact, other than stating the times you wish to go to sleep and wake up, you must mention vital information pertaining to the times you usually brush your teeth, comb your hair, iron your clothes, etc, etc.. that will create a complete awareness of a day of your life, and it will be extremely useful for your prospective partner.
I’m amazed by your time management skills and I, as a person who struggle in that area, actually took notes from your blog. In fact you must take up lecturing on Time Management, especially to dating couples.
Hey melani, this is actually a bit surprising… I have read your earlier blogs. For some reason, you crossed my mind today!! may be about two hours back..Since I ddnt see any blogs from you recently, just wondered whether everything was ok with you. And to see, your blog is here!!.. Sometimes the things you read, stick in your mind, like the foot prints of the writer, and i admire your blogs .. Hope you are doing fine..
Dear Hn2009, I live in an island and I know how it is. We were hit by a Tsunami in 2004 and it was a pretty devastating experience. Living in an island is a beautiful experience, but yeah, it has its own terrifying loneliness, when it comes to deal with the Ocean!! Let’s hope and pray that “She” won’t get into a rage and will let us live in peace.
Hey Kasih, haven’t u heard that dewdrops last only until sunshine come? Let “the drop” enjoy its short life. Don’t worry too much ladies. Lets waste our time on something more inspiring, like, hmm…let me think.. may be on a man with a brain?
Ohh, your mom's birthday!!! Wish her good health and God's Blessings and many many more happy birthdays to come. Tell her that i said "hi" to her..
Ohh darling, me being attacked? Where? When? Hehehe.. I have more serious real life issues to deal with than a silly bunch of people. You Know, I have learnt that being diplomatic is the best policy. Having said that, if I have to say something, I jolly well say that to anyone, real life or virtual. You see, it’s pointless to drag a silly argument, like some of the crazy blogs we read here on CS, to prove a point, if you have no way of reaching their mindsets. You can write hundred and fifty comments saying the same thing over and over, but what’s the point? Will anything change? Nope!!
You are a great person. As I have observed, you talk about an issue which moves you and after you come out of the emotion, you tend to think whether the commotion was really necessary. Well, I think you are verrrrry human. Don’t regret being you, I really appreciate your sensitivity. Trust me you will be loved by a lot, always. (Sorry about commenting on yourself in public, but i hope its always nice to appreciate someone in public than saying bad stuff)
Dear kasih, You have expressed your contempt I guess. But as some other comments say, what’s going on with some people here seems personal and I sincerely hope that no one will paste an Asian label there. Don’t worry too much. You are a beautiful person and you sound responsible. In fact, I admire your qualities and learn a few things from you.
Hey Ruben, I understand what you try to say, well may be not exactly everything you try to express, but I think at least the basics. I don’t think I will understand a divorce fully, coz I was never married, in the first place. But I understand the pain, when someone you loved so much takes you for granted, destroying everything you invested in the relationship. Usually, when it happens, you tend to think that your investment in love is in-vain. I experienced the feeling sometime back.
Yes, we believe in love, and in the name of love, we sacrifice things. Later, if we fail in that love, we tend to think that the other party had never been in love, if not for the material benefits we deposited in-to that relationship. It’s so nice to talk about unconditional divine love, but every one of us knows that it’s hard to practice divine love, in real life, coz we are human.
I have this very painful experience, where I invested a lot of me, in a relationship, just to find that it’s not the real person, who he was trying to show me. When you come to a conclusion that the real person is far more different to the one you fell in love with, you find it difficult to make up your mind and go back to the original position. Since we are human, we can’t deny being unhappy about the time and assets invested in a failed relationship. It’s totally different to giving something for charity, it’s your life, you invest in a relationship, not extra means that you could happily disposed of. You may have foregone other very important individual needs, becoz of that love. And if you lose that love, which was precious to you in every-way, you tend to ask yourself, whether that relationship worth half of your life or the number of days you spent, building a beautiful castle, together. In your eyes, the other party has failed you.
But, dear Ruben, relationships fail. It’s inevitable, coz of various reasons. The most obvious reason is that one party loosing the grip, leaving the relationship to shudder, slightly at the beginning, leading to a possible disaster at the end. It takes two to keep the fire burning. Its combined efforts of two individuals. When it’s gone, you feel like it was never there, but hey, it was there, and though it exhausted your energy, don’t forget that it also added some very important factors, like understanding about your own-self. When I lost the things I invested in love, and still survived, I realized that I’m really strong and specially, that no material losses can shake me off.
Hey Andrill, thanks for commenting.. Are you serious? I never knew that “e-husbands” are already available. ha ha..Thanks for the information, I will google.
Glad to know that there are people who still value some old but gold stuff.. Well you can’t totally disregard the development in technology, which is one of our own achievements. My personal opinion is that, a right balance between new trends and old traditions would save us from being mechanical..
Thanks Janmei, Yes, too many can be taken into “education system”. Sorry, couldn’t specify as “formal structured education system”. Anyways, thanks much again, what you’ve explain is adequate. Well, think that I mentioned its for my knowledge. If I ddnt, now you know. :)
I’v been reading your series of “Vanity Fair and City”. Could you kindly explain a bit about the education system in China? How the primary, secondary and tertiary or university education have been structured? Approximately, how many years it takes to obtain a bachelors degree in a local university? Wish you would leave a brief explanation.
Wonderful writing!! I so believe that only a person who is happy with what he has and know how to take control of the situation he is in, will be able to inspire the others as well. That’s because, if you are stuck in your own misery, you will always send out negative energy to the outer world.
There can be ups and downs in life, but in general, if you adopt a positive outlook to your life, its not so difficult to concur small hick-ups in our day to day life. And yeah, you should not spoil your “today” by forgetting to live it to the fullest, and limiting it only to search a life partner or to find a better job or to build a bigger house or things which might give you a better “tomorrow”…If you stop living your “today”, none of these things will be possible to achieve. .And the best part is, even if you don’t achieve anything tomorrow, the “hope” and “happiness” within you, will take you through, and always light up your journey..
Certainly, one of the most positive thoughts anyone can spread around.. So glad to see wonderful people like you around!! Thanks much ruben….Hope you have a fantastic 2010, best of luck and God’s choicest blessings!!!
Hey moon, why are you so upset girlie? Cheer up and smile..Things will be ok for you..
You know what I do when I get upset or depressed, I turn into music, compose a melody or play organ keyboard with the full volume and sing from the top of my lungs..and practice different octaves and singing techniques.. Trust me dear it works, music is really good to fix your mood. But remember, dnt listen to sad songs.. that makes u more unhappy. Just avoid too sentimental stuff for the time being. And just go for the fun part of music only. Honestly, when its something to do with love, i totally ignore love songs, coz i know that it can make me more sad.
Ahh playing with lil ones will help a lot.. ahh ..then again, setting hair in a new style is really takes the stress out. Ouch about to forget to tell you…watching comedies or cartoon movies, those are the best ones..you have to laugh a lot dear then u forget whatever the sad feelings..
Moon, life is too short. May be in few days or few weeks after, you will laugh at your own self and for the reason why you were so upset. Once you regain your strength, you will feel stupid for being so upset..you will be smiling soon..
Hmmm???..Is it a tech error or the response is needed to be repeated for Mr. Max? :) I hope it’s the former. just paid attention to some petty stuff :)
Sometimes people get bored, when things are getting stagnated. That’s the reality of anything in life. When the initial wonder of meeting a completely new person slowly wears out, both parties have a responsibility to keep the flame going, be it a romantic or platonic friendship. Both parties should feel the need for keeping in touch and may be taking a further step by opening up and sharing more serious and personal issues.
Having said that, yes, you have to be very careful that you make the correct move with the correct person. I think it’s an art to be in touch with people who you can’t meet daily, without getting weary over the whole idea of being friends.
However, I hope you will find your answers soon and save yourself from being hurt.
Sure sure..have fun..I saw one lady member asking for more free services, haha.. be careful anyways.
I gotta concentrate on my reports (work) or else clients will write comments to my boss..(wink) You take care..ok, dnt let idiots to steal your temper. :)
Hey buds, its morning for us..im at work just logged in to see the pretty faces of CS members..haha.. Couldnt contact the friend..must write to him today.. :) How r u doing..hows the free editing service going? Dont you think a daily english class would be a better community service? hahah
Hey guys, thanks for all the comments. Just got bored and thought I would write something funny.. (based on what I have observed)
Ruban…Ruban.. Only the teddy bear is missing.. hahah..(Well I have seen you use words very effectively, when you really have to. So, no worries)
Ahh Presti, I saw your invitation in another blog but I got bored about the balloon. Actually I was referring to “the professionalism” not to the balloon. My saying that “I m amazed by a crime scene investigator” doesn’t mean that I like crimes or my saying that “snake charming is an extraordinary skill” doesn’t mean that I like snakes. Similarly, my admiration about a “balloon specialist” doesn’t mean that I like balloons in a special way. It’s simply the professionalism I admire. Well there’s a thin line between the subject and “the professional”. Obviously, you need a very keen eye (a mind) to differentiate the two.
Hey Solo, thanks buddy.. Yeah.. we should be able to love and respect people for their talents and for who they are. Its nice to see the way you express yourself.. You are a remarkable person too.. I mean it :)
Only a handful of people in this world spot the “sheer elegance” and “uncanny finesse” of a drifting balloon over Colorado. What an expert of balloons!!! Great Advice to the blogger!!
Ahh..she is a bit smarter than I thought :) Hey moony, I hope that at your age, you are utilizing your time also to go out and meet friends, enjoy things like music and performing arts, I mean things like singing, playing some musical instrument, dancing, stage drama, to write a drama script or a short story, to attend to some social community activities, organize some fun events for your friends and family..etc etc... Sincerely wish that you are not limiting your time only to learn things from so many on line friends..
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Hey all.. Emily, Jack, Stevano, Drea, Thanx for posting your comments. Miss Lookingfor.. No worries :) Im glad that you expressed yourself here on my blog..Mr. Dadvic, Sir, you seem not getting the point, I cant help much about it.. Your happiness is the most important thing to you, and I don’t envy it or dispute it..Not at all. If you were able to find a 22yr old love in your own country and neighbourhood, without having to fly across many oceans, I would have given a lot more credit to you. Hehehe. but what’s the importance of my credit to you! However, I trust that at your age, you must be knowing the right thing to do!!
To tell you all the truth, im kind of bored and not in a mood to write notes to each of you… I have much more to talk on this issue, in my mind, but.. yeah.. sometimes I lose interest in writing .. so will catch u all some other time..
Take care guys..