First I think real friendship is rare and hard to find. And, besides the above posted statements, many people just don't want to make the effort to keep a friendship going for one reason or another.
I have often pondered upon that very same question. When it comes to soulmate material, it's beyond chemistry. Many of us, can have chemistry with many different people. But a soulmate touches us on the soul level, we feel like we have been with that person before, there is an underlying subconscious recognition of having meet before. When you gaze into their eyes, you see something special something unique, something recognizable, but indescribable. Sorry, I do not speak from experience, but from having read others who have and the above explanation could be much deeper but beyond the scope of this blog. JMO!
I think we all do, to some degree. I think it's part of human nature to feel that way. Some of us tend to push ourselves hard and be highly critical of our selves. Many of us, really feel like we just don't fit in, like we were born for another era and just dumped here. In the end, it's really not worth stressing over, it's a waist of energy. Just do what you can and just go with the flow!!
But do something wacky and out of place once in awhile, just to see if their paying attention!!
Hahahhahahah!!! You crack me up!!! It's one of those universal equations with an unknown. I find myself doing my laundry and no matter how much I check the washer and dryer, at the end, there is always one missing sock!!!
Ally102, has some good points. In the end what we entertain in our thoughts, we ultimately do or become. The difference between a person that harms no one and a cold blooded killer, is how long you think about it and how much time you spend thinking about hurting someone.
Have you ever really gotten angry at someone and felt for a few moments you wanted to punch the daylights out of them? Then you realize where your thoughts are leading you and you stop thinking about it and let it go. Those who hurt others spend most of their time being angry at people and spend most of their time getting even or harming them.
The same thing with situations we deal with and things that happen to us. Do we continue to cry and complain about what happens to us or do we just deal with it and move on? If you realize how much wasted time and energy is involved with negative thinking you then spend 5-10 minutes grieving, crying and then your done, you get over it then move on. Like the blogger wrote, in my own words, Your future is dependent on your thoughts, as negative thinking only begets more negative experiences, the law of attraction/manifestation. You choose what is good or bad for you. If your in a negative cycle, break it, by thinking positive and letting go of deep rooted negative feelings and emotions. Replace them all with positive thoughts, feelings and emotions.
I agree with earthangel01! Good movie. I too, give it an 8 stars out of 10 for the entertainment value alone. Definitely not one of Carrey's best for acting, but very entertaining and unique. I was definitely laughing, he's a very funny guy when he's working within the framework of a really good storyline and a worthwhile concept.
First, I completely agree with you 100%. I hate lies and deception of any kind, it even kills the respect after the 10th or 12th time, it's really bad when you loose count. When your married to a chronic lier, you have to give them at least that many chances, so you can later say to yourself, you have tried.
I am 5'10.5," now, my only choice is 5'10 or 5'11 under the profile setup drop down menu. I have decided to choose 5'11." Should I have chosen 5'10" instead?
But at 5'9" yourself, how would you be looking down on a man that is 5'10?" Do you plan on wearing high heals all the time?
Thank you, dolphinrider and springwillow for reading my blog and taking the time to comment.
springwillow, Your wrote: oh by the way.... I saw your reply on 'teach me' blog..
would you mind explaining what exactly you where teaching?
I am normally an inspired and dedicated student.. however... I guess they don't teach that in psychology/criminology.... hmmmm must google it or go to the library...
Since the blogger did not specify what he wanted to be taught. My sense of humor got the best of me and I added some Star Trek science jargon as a comment. I was trying to go beyond teaching and go directly into blowing his mind!!
Hang in there earthangel01. From the other side of the gender coin, it's not much different. Give it allot of time. It takes allot of time and filtering to find a good match and it will be worth it in the long run. It's better to take 2 or 3 years to find someone worth the rest of your life than wasting it on children and immature babies that look like adults and go from relationship and hardship to another. You will only be repeating your last relationship over and over.
You wrote: it ALMOST has me wanting to go running back to that extra child that i sent out to the world.
But what ever you do, don't go back to the "X." I am stuck right now with a grown woman size 3rd child myself. These people, that pass themselves off as adults, are bent on learning lessons the hard way and all they will do is keep dragging you through it all anyway. Besides they have no idea what love is really about and only operate on the immature jealous and selfish level anyway, it's really not worth wasting anymore of your time. Believe me!!
The plasma conduits must be aligned parallel to the dilithium crystals. This is the only way to power the warp drives. Other wise, the streams of matter and antimatter directed into crystallized dilithium are unbalanced. Proper alignment will ensure the energy generated in the annihilation reaction heats up the excess deuterium gas to power the warp drives.
If you can handle that, I can later explain the construction of a cloaking device for an Attack fighter classification starship.
I sure do! Marriage, right now, is not believing in me!
But some day, I will meet someone that knows the difference between true love and obsession, jealousy, and selfishness. That someone, will understand the importance of truth and transparency.
Then, God willing, I will have a real wedding and honeymoon. One of my wishes before I die!!
"I love to watch vegetables and fruits grow. I love to see flowers bloom. I love the idea of planning out a landscaping design and seeing it come to fruition.
Now, all I need is a man who wants to listen to my ideas and then do the work to make it happen!"
I am such a man. With the poor quality of food found in grocery stores today and my concern with staying healthy at my age, I have been thinking about growing my own food. I am also a work horse and can build walls, floors, a roof, dig, saw, sand, paint, cut stone, mix concrete, I love building wooden decks and stone patios.
There has to be more men like me. I bet there are more than one near you!
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bournemouthalpha, well written!!I am sure you realize, there is no point in going into Soultwins!