Well, it helps if you come across someone that is "exciting," on the sane wavelength, full of energy, playful and wants to enjoy life to it's fullest...at any age!
I'm no spring chicken either, but you have every right to question anyone about anything, especially someone you are trying to get to know. Drama is always a bad thing....good luck!
"backup person?" That's reads like second best, there is only one for me, the one and only! To be revealed in God's own time! Choosing the "backup person" get's us in trouble every time!
Me too morgenulv, To me, everything is an expression of this supreme intelligence, that holds everything together! It has a plan, we just can't comprehend it.
That's just adding more to the already massive amount of strange things happening on so many levels. I think when the real roller coaster ride starts, those who are living in denial, are going to be shocked and will have the hardest time dealing with it all. Its the birth pains of a new age about to be born!
"Can I say that you look ridiculous in those jeans, or that I prefer not to go out tonight because I have a serious case of gas?"
You make a good point, good blog! I prefer a very honest person, but sometimes, it's not what you way in an honest way, but how you say it that makes the difference.
I would prefer that a woman tell me that I don't look good in something I am wearing, I want to look good for her as well as feel good about myself. But perhaps, saying it in a different way. Rather than say, "you look ridiculous," say something like, "I don't think you look good in those jeans," try this pair, or you look much better in these, I really don't like they way those look on you..etc.
As for the gas, I can understand that, but there is also a way to express that, without telling a lie.
"What I was thinking - are women becoming more independant while men hold to traditional values."
I do believe everyone should do what they feel is right, no two situations, no matter how similar they appear, are exactly the same.
All I know is, that if I were dating someone and later find out that they have a FWB and are sleeping with them on a regular basis, it doesn't make me feel like I'm starting with someone from scratch, the very beginning, there is already someone in the closet.
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I hope your puter get's well soon! 
RE: Love and Age.... i wish that someone would
Well, it helps if you come across someone that is "exciting," on the sane wavelength, full of energy, playful and wants to enjoy life to it's fullest...at any age!