"Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks....Check your thoughts before you speak..."
That's the key right there, the mouth follows the thoughts in the head, bad thoughts beget bad words, that attracts bad experiences, that beget a negative future. Many deny they create their future, every moment of everyday.
A strange person to one person and can seem normal to another...it's all relative. I have a person take 5 packets of ketchup and squeeze them all into a hamburger, it looks like it's bleeding to death, then watch them eat it.
The joy of slow teaches you to discern between business and wisdom, effort and grace, progress and truth. Slowing down can help you to stay true to your vision during the fast times. Slowing down can help you to sharpen your focus, adjust any blurring, and be more perceptive. In fact, going slow can help you to go fast better" Nice blog post chocolateflavour!
This is so true! You can spend a few years looking for the right person...or Five years wasted with the wrong person...and possibly missed the right person entirely for life...who know?
It's just like you wrote, when you go slow and take your time...you'll see the warning signs, if you listen carefully, you'll hear them speak the words for you.
Examples:
I don't know what love is anymore. If your in it, you'll know.
This is not working. If they persistently say this, take it literally.
Money and financial status issues, like, "How much money do you make?," very early in a relationship - they are looking for high class living...not really looking for love.
Having no desire to meet your children - I don't introduce my children to every woman I meet, but if I know someone well enough, care about someone and see a permanent possibility...I will introduce them, as a friend, to my children and watch their reaction. This is very important when you have children.
The list is very long, but I think you get the idea...
virgosingle, it's a funny thing this online stuff! Then they get mad at you, when they contact you, like your the next best thing to slice bread, and you don't pay any attention to them!
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RE: Dating for the Baby Boomers....
Well, maybe if I go to bed with a super hot cup of coffee, I'll have warm dreams!