It has always been my impression that the people who have the most are the unhappiest those of us that need to struggle to survive seem to find happiness in the face of adversity
If men understood women then life would be easy but boring we men need women to keep us confused, agitated, always relishing the chase then when rebuked coming back for more
Dreams come true but wishes do not. The secret is to know what you want so when it comes along you will realize you have found what you are looking for. The man you seek may even live next door or be someone you have known for years. Look deeper at the men you know, men with whom you come into contact with when visiting your places of interest try to make your dream come true rather than wait for him to pass by.
You are blaming yourself for reasons given to you by this person, have you considered that these reasons (that you say are not true) are just an excuse as he wants to be with another woman but does not have the courage to tell you honestly. Their are always two sides to every coin unfortunately we tend only to see the coin from our side thus blaming ourselves when effectively the fault is not ours.
The advantage of cyber dating is that a person is able to express oneself without other emotions complicating the situation. For example when two people meet there is an element of shyness, hesitation and fear. Another big plus is it is possible to get to know and understand better a potential partner, girlfriend/boyfriend before you actually meet as it affords the opportunity to ask questions a person perhaps would not ask in a face to face encounter. Likewise as I have experienced it is possible to judge (to a certain degree) whether there is any long term future with the person whom you are initially attracted too. You cited two situations in your blog whereby there is a guy who you feel totally at ease with and trust and another where a romantic connection would be pleasant, combine the two into one and you could say you have pretty much found what you are looking for.
A guy was dating a girl for the first time, all through the date the girl talked about herself, seeing that the guy was getting bored she says "well that is enough about me", "What do you think about me?" People that bug me are those that are full of their own importance as though everone else are just "little people".
Hey! you do yourself an injustice, you are trying to mask what you really feel, be cool, things have a way of working themselves out, be patient, good men are like waiting at the bus stop, seems forever before they come along then there are too many to choose from. Think positive, eat chocolate or whatever, do not dwell on depressive thoughts.
What does "true love" mean to you? Before you can find it you have to be able to answer that question (believe me it is not easy). Once you have done that you will have a set of values by which you will be able to judge a man so that you know he will be able to give you what you are looking for. When you talk of happiness do you mean being happy with the man you have chosen or you just want your life to be worry free? As for winning the lottery then I wish you luck bearing in mind most people that win the lottery wish they hadn’t.
What is beauty? Is it the structure of a face or body or the age of a person, or is it a persons character? I am beautiful but not necessarily good looking.
Thank you for your advise on how I should post my profile. My mother gave me advise when I was young, unfortunately her advise like yours was just her opinion. My mistake was posting a photo on the request of a woman from the site, since then no-body has bothered to read my profile as they judge me on what I look like in my photo. As for one line replies that is all I get, that is if after taking the trouble to contact a woman I get a reply at all!! Regards
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RE: What life throws at you.
It has always been my impression that the people who have the most are the unhappiest those of us that need to struggle to survive seem to find happiness in the face of adversity