calmheartseeks Blog Comments (1,531)

RE: give to take

I know they don't, Molly.

But isn't that the point, to find a relationship that will "last the course"?

You need more than just personality and attraction. You need sympatico.

For me that has been tough to find, anyway.

RE: give to take

Hi Johnny,
Thanks for the reply.

I know that physical attraction is necessary for a relationship, but for many it seems to be THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

Like the joke says, "he doesn't love her for her mind," etc.

To give an example, I am in a "friendship" right now with a local guy who has told me he thinks I'm cute etc and would like to date me.

But we have very little in common, so I don't get it.

Yes, goldurnit, I want to be loved for my mind! lol.

At least a little.

Good blog.

RE: give to take

Of course there are a lot of "I wants" on dating sites.

People are not looking for "love" here.

They are looking for 'romantic love", and that has a lot to do with the physical wrapping.

If they don't feel a strong attraction to the wrapping, or the picture, they do not look that person's way for "love".

Real love is a deep caring for another individual. That comes from within, not without.

I have had a lot of men like my physical wrapping. But not so many that "get" who I really am, and love me for that person. That's where the real attraction has to take place, at least that's what I believe.

Am I wrong?

RE: love

When I was younger I thought personality, attraction and some compatibility was enough to sustain a good relationship.

Now I understand it is so much more.

Maybe that is why we stay single so long, looking for that "right" partner that will "fit" our life.

Clearly a hard task,.

The world is overpopulated yet so many are alone,.

RE: why !

@Map.

RE: it must comes back to you

dont ask wiz he hammers meat thermometers into his ear

RE: Tribute To Karen

1 2 1, yes hearing her music takes me back in time as well.

RE: THE FOURTH SIGN OF THE ZODIAC (PART 3) Mary Oliver

RE: The Hedgehog.

I don't know.

I still can't get over your "Bad Bobby" picture.

Was there a hedgehog in it?

RE: Tribute To Karen

Add this one to the top songs list:

Hurting Each Other:

RE: ~~~ WHAT'S LOVE ~~~

RE: ~~ WHO YOU ARE ?~~

wow. good blog. Wish more had glints of wisdom like this!

RE: Tribute To Karen

Love Top of the World, Close to You, We've Only Just Begun, Goodbye to Love (Great song!),...

Tragic how she passed.

RE: By-myself

Good blog.

Who of us hasn't woken up in the middle of the night, aware of our utter aloneness in the world?

However, I prefer to believe there is also a spiritual component to existence, which some never glimpse.

And the truth is, you are not alone by-myself.

RE: Why do some people get upset when they hear the wo

Thanks, maiden. I have heard of what you are saying but its hard to know if its true, so many still die of cancer, even having had the treatments from traditional medicine.

True, Molly. True for both sides.

RE: The Magical Frog

I think the bear would be pretty mad about that last wish. No wonder you're on that motorbike, bunny.

RE: What should you answer?

Because you haven't found someone else with all those same attributes.

RE: "ALONE AGAIN..NATURALLY"

that comment was for dieci...

RE: "ALONE AGAIN..NATURALLY"

If you think a human being has the same worth to you as a car, etc....that's messed up.

RE: His Anointing - Final

Thank you, Keyes...

RE: young women dating older men

If I remember right, that formula mic quoted is a very old formula and really doesn't work out well, especially for a 52 year old woman. why she want to be with someone who is 90 years old? Or vice versa. I don't see that in real life that often, either.

RE: '......That is what I get when I type

Still the same thing with the ampersand, etc.

RE: '......That is what I get when I type

RE: i'm alone

@pat.

RE: '......That is what I get when I type

Sorry. Didn't see someone else had already posted the link.

RE: '......That is what I get when I type

Those characters are the HTML code for an apostrophe.

RE: A complete waste of time?

I was wondering about the picture, too.

He does look like an English chap in a way, though. Kinda cute.

RE: Why Does God Allow Sin and Suffering

So for the poor and the suffering and the starving and sick little children, for them to die is a blessing! It's the ones who are left behind that are to be pitied, the ones who don't die. But those, no doubt, God is trying to teach lessons to and prepare for the afterlife to get them ready to die--which they frequently do soon after their suffering and their sorrow.--David Berg

Real question.

So the ones who die early don't need these lessons?

RE: Revision, Name all of the cs bloggers you want to

RE: Fake

lol, unla.