RE: Wishes, Desires And Hopes For This Christmas...

Yes, Johnny "you lit up my screen" is a very common phrase...liked the
"electricity" come back laugh too bad the little blonde thing who was probably a tall darm man didn't have a sense of humor.

RE: Eyes !

The "eyes" have it. teddybear

Many poems have been written about a lover's eyes. wow

This is one of the more interesting blogs (regarding love) I have seen lately. love

The more I read from you, the more I like u, Snooks! teddybear rose

(Wish we could get some more, new emoticons. Getting tired of using the same ones over and over.) :)

RE: lol

Wouldn't he have found the taste a bit off?

RE: perspective taking

I don't know if we are heading toward individuals feeling the world is against them, but it is definitely heading toward more isolation (we will be able to do almost everything with technology from our home), and a general distrust of anyone except the ones closest to us (sometimes we don't even trust them).

I have heard more than one person tell me recently that through sad experience they have found that you cannot trust anyone, and to be careful, for even your best friend can stab you in the back (especially where money is involved). sad flower

I believe people are losing their spiritual compass (a belief in God and its inherent altruism) left with lives without purpose, and caught in the worlds increasing narcissism, selfishness, and looking out for number one. sad flower teddybear

RE: Selfie

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

RE: Calipso's real 18,980 days

Happy birthday to one of the most beautiful and nicest ladies on CS! Even with one eye she truly shines on, a great example of why its fun to be 50 cheers bouquet happy birthday party cake

RE: 7 Reasons Matchmaking Is Better Than Online Dating

Good convincing article, but it reminded me of the TV show, The Millionaire Matchmaker, with the show host and self-acclaimed, born to be a matchmaker, Patti Stanger (who had trouble finding a match for herself). As others have said, many "matchmakers" are in it for the money and may have poor match making skills.

If you do your research on a matchmaking firm, meet some satisfied/happy clients that were not paid for a testimonial, and feel as Robert said drawn or interested in the service, give it a go! You can only come out smarter for the xperience (and with a little less moola.) cheers teddybear

RE: Minerva's day

Happy B-day, Miss Min! gift Hope you receive many gifts, as you are a gift to us. May you have many more wonderful days to spread your love and care~! bouquet rose cake balloons waiter danceline

RE: I'M DONE WITH LOVE I'M SO SICK & TIRED OF HURTING

Hi Rubert,
You are too young to be "sick of love". And it will be very hard to be done with it as long as you still have a heart. hug

The best way to protect from hurt is to be very careful whom you open your heart up to, make sure they are "worthy" of your gift by being loving themselves.

I wish you all the best and don't give up. You have many more years (hopefully) of living and loving. teddybear gift

RE: Another Year Older

Willow, I often to think I am old. Until I see a 90 plus year old. hug cheers Enjoy your very special day...every one is a gift. teddybear wine cake

RE: When/How Do You Introduce Your BF/GF To Your Kids?

CH, in all the time I've read your blogs and comments you appear to doubt it will last. teddybear But only you know how you feel deep down inside. That's the part to consult. bouquet

RE: if you're not religious but...

I think religious means strongly agreeing with a certain religion's doctrine.

Spiritual means a belief in God or the spiritual realm but not strongly tied to a religion, or believing in a religion but it doesn't have a great importance in their life or choice of partner.

It probably does vary a bit with different people, as Minerva found, but the core idea is the same.

RE: You Can't Hide Happiness...

Turn the name around, CH. laugh

RE: Less Attractive Couples In A Relationship...

I agree with Molly; in my experience people that are "unattractive" can be just as mean, unfaithful, or cold as the more attractive ones. This kind of surprised me as I assumed they would have developed their heart and personality when they couldn't get by just on looks. Not so! That's why you can never judge a book by the cover. Always read the inside pages. dancing teddybear

RE: Less Attractive Couples In A Relationship...

You can't have a lasting "relationship" (in the full sense of the word) with looks alone. On the other hand, if there is no chemistry, the relationship cannot ever move beyond a very good friend.

Most people that we meet will be in the friend zone. The Stones had a song, "light my fire." Unfortunately there is a shortage of matches. laugh cheers hug

RE: Why I No Longer Take Blogging on CS Serious.

Is the OP 68? I think the author photo he posted is. confused

RE: When Is It Time To Go?

cheering wine

RE: We Are All Weak and Incomplete Without Each Other

ekself thumbs up

RE: Man-ism

All women and all men are individual persons. Like their fingerprints.

I wouldn't have done or said ANY of the things the women you mention in your blogs did.

cheers

RE: Blindsided By Life

Is it possible he would like to move there too? I know the answer to this is probably no.

You are probably aware of the saying, "One bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." Your dream of Ireland is just that: a dream and may or may come true (at least how you envision it). Have you ever had that happen?

Plus you can always go back to a dream. What you have in your hand is real.

Why don't you take a trip to Ireland together, just for a vacation? There may be compromises to the situation. If that is also out of the question, perhaps postpone the dream of Ireland for now and just continue to get to know your love interest. Perhaps in time, he might change his mind about Ireland when he sees how much it means to you. This is not impossible (though may be unlikely).

The final decision might just boil down to would you rather have someone to love, who loves you in return, or go to Ireland and possibly never meet someone like him again? The other relationships you had did not work out, so he may be one of those who are hard to replace for you, if not impossible. We are all one of a kind and unique...I have known people I "lost" and never met anyone like them again.

teddybear

RE: weight

420 lbs is heavy no matter what, but if he were a short man rather than tall that would complicate matters in proportion...

What trumps is the expansiveness of truly loving. We love whom we love! People often say, what does he/she see in him? They do not know. But WE do. purple heart

RE: Im not a blogger

lol! Very cute. laugh cheers

RE: Mingle2.com

There are a lot of complaints about it on the Internet. Others have had the same problem you have. Some have been able to delete their account; others not. Have you researched it other than on Mingle? Hopefully there's a way.

I'm not a member so don't know, but seems nowadays you have to be very careful what sites you "join" and what pics and information you share.

Good luck!

RE: A Life That Counts - Final

Very good blog.

Regarding is CS the place to post this kind of blog?

I don't know, we are told to "go out into the marketplace".

Who knows who reads the blog(s)? It would be enough if it touched only one.

Sometime that's the intent.

I don't think the blogs should be dominated with religion, but once in awhile is fine. It is part of life, our spiritual beliefs. It colors who we are and how we act, as a single and as part of a community.

cheers bouquet

RE: IT'S HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIME TO ANGEL!!!!

lol robert. laugh you and your onions.

Angel, this is THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BLOG I HAVE SEEN ON CS. It must be because it was for an Angel. angel Be sure to save it on your computer under birthday blogs for angels! Oh what cakes and goodies and drinks...good eating for a long time! teddybear gift gift gift cheers hug bouquet cheering

RE: talk about offputting ...

lol, biff! You are so funny (about the BeeGees). I always thought their voices were odd too. rolling on the floor laughing

RE: A New Muslim Renaissance is Here

And will this reformation change parts (the directive to kill all nonbelievers) of the Koran? confused Or do they just believe some parts of it, others not? Would really like to know this from peaceful Muslims.

RE: talk about offputting ...

lol, this blog makes me laugh, I have thought this for a long time, about the voice being very important, although it is hardly mentioned.

There have been many times I've liked someone online, but when we got on the phone, his voice would completely turn me off - and be totally not what I expected.

People should have "audio" parts of their profile. It is coming in the future for dating sites...watch for it...rolling on the floor laughing

RE: A follow-up of my kitten blog

Phoenix, very sweet story about your kitten friend.

I loved his "special trick".

RE: Strangs Replys from Women

I thought you'd post on this, music. laugh

To alsenani: Because when women say it to a woman, it is not taken in the same way as when a man says it to a woman.

But don't give up, women love to be sincerely complimented. Think of something she doesn't hear all the time, like "you have beautiful eyes". Instead make it unique to her.

All the best.

teddybear

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