calmheartseeks Blog Comments (1,531)

RE: The Mod’s profile

oh, wait. Maybe they have to have a profile to post their mod comments? 'Dunno.

RE: The Mod’s profile

music.

I wonder why they need to have a profile? Especially the male guy's as he stated "he was not here for dating" more than once.

RE: What Men and Women Want…Changes As They Grow Older

The premise of this blog is probably true, that what we want changes as we grow older, but I think this comes from life's lessons...we know what we want because we've been there, done that with the other and hopefully accrued a little wisdom along the way.

I don't want a man twenty or fifteen years younger, the youngest I would probably go is ten...and hopefully physically he looks like the older one, lol. People age so differently...some quickly, some slowly...this is one thing that surprised me to learn.

I do think most men desire someone younger, but then they do want someone they can talk to and someone who will partner with them in life. The ones who have a little wisdom, that is.

RE: The Mod’s profile

Hi Music! Yes, she says she is a software engineer who programs websites for companies, and she works at CS. Very beautiful lady, and yes, she posted the first blog.

RE: "your word"

Not insignificant at all, Johnny. In fact, I was just thinking about the very same thing today!!

To give an example, someone tells you clearly they will call you and give you the information you asked for. You believe it, and you wait. And you wait. They never call and they never apologize, they simply act like it never happened, but for you, it makes you view them differently, and everything they tell you, because you know they are someone who does not take their word seriously.

The same dynamic when telling someone you will come by. They tell you, you believe them, and you wait for them but they never come. This has happened to me, in fact just recently.

What it shows me about the person is that they will make promises or statements that it is not important for them to keep. And I should not trust or count on what they say.

Very important message in this blog.

Your word is your bond, and should not be given lightly.

RE: CS MEMBERSHIP FEE....How Much?

It's okay Mr. Ken! did a quick search and saw what you meant, didn't realize it was on CD though and that cheap. Probably a lot of headaches for that low of a price, as CH said. Hi Crazy.

RE: CS MEMBERSHIP FEE....How Much?

Really, Ken? I haven't seen those (dating site software on CD). Can you point me in their direction for a look-see? Thanx.

RE: Who Makes Millions On Their Smart phone Apps

Check out the Mequoda Group, it's a site that deals with all things digital publishing.

RE: I need help

I've thought of doing that myself (but on its own domain, not Facebook). Be forewarned that the online dating site is completely saturated now so competition is huge.

It's great you are niching just in your area, but I don't know (as Ken said) if basing it on FB is a good idea, unless as it grows you can export membership to a better platform.

RE: Ashley Madison....yes another blog...lol

now that's a cute little kitty.

RE: Who Makes Millions On Their Smart phone Apps

I am not 130 years old...its a joke, son.

RE: Ashley Madison....yes another blog...lol

@Musical Yes, they do! The dogs.

Or maybe its because this blog is a little "catty".

(I'm kidding, Johnny. You know I think you're great.)

RE: Ashley Madison....yes another blog...lol

What's with all the cat profile pictures? I'm starting to get paranoid.

RE: Dear Jane letter

I wonder where that saying came from - does a leopard change its spots? Its ridiculous . They probably don't even know they are there...but they know YOU are there, so better take a hike.

RE: Who Makes Millions On Their Smart phone Apps

Hey, good luck Dawson, let us know!

Ken, I also do affiliate marketing and was thinking of turning a site into an app.

What type of sites do you develop?

RE: would you, could you, change?

I don't know...those seem like such small reasons not to give something a chance. Getting up at 5:00? Not so bad, actually nice, in anycase can be worked around with love.

Smoking? Should give it up anyway (smile) but as you obviously want to continue, is it worth to smoke and be alone the rest of your life?

I'd rather be with someone I love, than a cigarette, but that's me.

RE: Goodbye Noble Heart Poet

Yes, I remember Hank Harlow. I didn't know him personally, but I saw him "around" on CS and remember in his profile he had written many books.

I am surprised and sorry to hear he has passed...and in 2012!

May He rest in peace and love in the eternal arms.

RE: WHY MEN ARE SELDOM DEPRESSED

The DEPRESSING thing is most of that list is correct!!! I would love to be a guy and run shirtless through the wind, lol. They are free as a bird, and that's the way uh-uh uh-huh they like it...

RE: My First Impression Of CS Male Bloggers

I think Rob was on this morning, most of his blogs are deleted again. I don't know why he does that, I didn't get to finish reading all the responses on the last one...

RE: Its a mans world?

so its womens fault that men are human. figures.

RE: Its a mans world?

And men don't decide who they desire to meet, and what women need to do to maintain the relationship? They certainly do!!! It goes both ways, I'm sure most women will agree.

Some men also get upset easily...they have emotions and are people, just like women. I have brothers and they are CONSTANTLY getting miffed, at the littlest things.

We are all just people..we have a lot of common, including the need to be loved.

Women do not rule..why does someone have to rule? That is the problem.

RE: Common Sense.

Pedal, as IQ is the Intelligence Quotient, EQ is the Emotional Quotient. It has been defined as the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.

Emotional intelligence has been seen as key to both personal and professional success, and is thought by some to be more important than IQ.

RE: Common Sense.

Common sense is not so common.

RE: Atheism, Theism and God

Hi Johnny,
What would you call the three dimensions you believe we are aware of? Just curious.

I do agree with this theory (that there are dimensions - i.e., the spiritual world, that we cannot 'see' but are aware of through other sensories)

RE: Is Spelling Still Important?

Hi Cat,
I could read it, but didn't like it.

I shudder to think what would happen if this caught on world-wide.

What would become of our great books? Of our doctor prescriptions?

thiz haus relle gawt mi wered.

(Gosh its harder to misspell than spell!)

RE: Women and Wimps

GUYS are made to suffer for not being perfect?

No, it seems women have had to bear this problem since the beginning of time..we can never be perfect enough.

RE: Those Long Gone Days

It may be. Newspapers (print) are dying off to Internet news sources.

RE: What Else Would You Like For CS To Do...

I would like an active member count. Failing or in addition to that, a total member count. I see mostly the same people over and over again. I know most don't post (rhyme hee hee) but still it doesn't look like a large member base and it would be interesting to know. (Also have number breakdowns of men, women, and age groups - general demographics.)

RE: The light of the party.

*didn't know.

RE: The light of the party.

Buy a sausage.

Men and women are not cows and sausages.

But he was being rude, demeaning women as "cows" (disguising it as humor)...perhaps he did know about sausages.