calmheartseeks Blog Comments (1,531)

RE: no volleyball for women........

RE: How marriage affects men

I don't get it. You mean they were lyin?

RE: hopeing to find love

@ Solamente's comment . So true.

RE: "God"have you forgotten me?

I am still wondering the same thing, and I've almost twice as long.

RE: Spiritual, but not Religious

Spiritual but not religious simply means they don't follow a set religon or doctrine strictly. They are open minded to the idea of God and the spiritual but don't really want to talk about it, ok.

RE: How?

You totally misunderstood, I only wanted to help. I'm sorry if it somehow upset you. Peace.

RE: How?

You asked how to be free in your blog title.

The comments addressed that...people took time out to care and try to help. I didn't notice anyone saying for you to tell yourself not to care....but if they did, of course that isn't the answer. I know that isn't what I said and I don't think its what KN meant.

The answer on how not to be afraid to love again is growing stronger from the experience, and moving forward in your life because staying where you are means staying in pain. I think there may be a lot of emptiness in your life that his love was fulfilling, and now that he is gone, you are feeling it acutely. The only way to avoid the same depth of sorrow in the future is being stronger next time!

I don't know what type of answer you hoped to get? I wish there was, but there is no magic bullet.

RE: How?

I know how bad a broken heart can feel, but if you let it keep you down and from finding another, too much time can go by and it can ruin your chances of finding happiness. A lot of your suffering is from wrong beliefs. Seeing the truth will help you move on.

Yes, you probably will still hurt for awhile, maybe a long time. KN gave good advice to help come out of the pain. Of course its personal for everyone. Think about what gives you joy and work to bring it into your experience. Please take time to do this. You will find it hard to cry and feel sad when you are in your bliss! Find meaning and purpose in living other than romantic love. While you grow stronger, reach out in meeting others so the door is open for love to come again.

You can love again and you will. It always feels like "that" person is the only one, but those feelings are a lie. Don't let this crocodile keep the crocodile tears coming.

All the best to you.

RE: the other love 2.......

I mean iota...

RE: the other love 2.......

I meant that each PERSON is a mixture of strengths and capabilities. I wasn't referring to standing in a physical shadow; but it did have that connotation as well because women are often referred to as "the little woman".

Thank you, Iao!

RE: I am laughing out of every where!!!

You go Zeurich! You deserve those cupcakes and it is your choice what you do or don't do. What should it matter to him?

I couldn't believe that comment. I'm glad you were free to see its humor and treat it as such.

RE: the other love 2.......

Why will women always be in the shadow of a man? Some women are taller than some men, some are smarter than some men, it is a potpourri. It is very pessimistic and sad to think women are inferior to men as a fact.

It is not fact. We are all different and shine with different capabilities and talents. Women were not allowed to shine for hundreds of years. Don't try to put the light out when its emerging.

RE: Choose what you value most

We missed you S.

RE: Opposition or Opportunity

I remember many years ago when I was sitting in church listening to a homily by a priest. He said (regarding opposition): "If you do good, you have to expect it."

So maybe we shouldn't be surprised.

RE: WHAT WOMEN WANT

unlaoised, I misread it too...thought he was calling us little girls.

I think most women check out photos first but personality is what seals the deal. They want heart and sincerity, someone they can trust to love.

Not so difficult, really.

RE: Sorry

RE: The Unseen World and How It Works

Very good blog.

Many people feel that just because they can't see something, it doesn't exist.

But there are many things in the material word we can't see that exist (electricity only one), that touch our lives every day.

I think we would be "shocked" at what surrounds if only we had eyes to see!!!

That is why shows like the Outer Limits and One Step Beyond used to be so popular.

We know the unknown exists. We just can't comprehend it.

RE: now/

Actually, yes it is better except the heading at the top:

"Just hear for,a goodperson ,and a kind harth ,and to see if we work.to be ONE,but not to be the same"

It should be "here" not hear and "heart" not harth

RE: JUST A FEW GOOD SMILES & LAUGHS...

I dunno Minerv. Then why are there so many laughlines?

RE: The Secret of the Vine

Keys, words of wisdom!!! or KEYS. :)

Your postings seem inspired by the H.S. Keep them coming- you don't know who you may be helping.

God bless,
C

RE: JUST A FEW GOOD SMILES & LAUGHS...

ho, ho, ho. Some very clever lines!!! Are you the author of all or some?

(I agree with you about the cheese.)

RE: RAINBOWS from RAIN

If You Would Find an Answer

If you would find an answer
to what's been troubling you
Would you shout it from the rooftops
Would you rejoice to find it's true?

If life hand's you sorrows
You really cannot bear
If you lose the ones you love
Or if no one seems to care

Will your heart continue hoping
That love will bless your day
That hope will not be hopeless
That love will find a way?

When no one understands
and you feel all alone
Will you put your hand in God's
Will you believe you are His own?

Even in all your struggles
What could they all be for!
Can you "see" a shining light
Upon a shining shore?

A dream that seems to call you
A day you know will dawn
A day when joy surrounds you
Your struggles all are gone.

As you melt into the arms
Of the One who calls your Name
Love meets love, and glorious Light
Shines rainbows from the rain.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~calm

RE: Global March on Christians

Scary. This is said to get even worse in end times.

RE: "if you new GOD stood next to you" what would u do

Butters...thank you for your comment.
So true!

RE: It's The Truth

RE: If You Knew God Stood Next to You

Beautiful post. Thank you. But so hard to realize in the noise of the world. How can we be more aware of His presence near us? That is the question.

RE: A Lot Of Missing Faces Lately

I think that post about GoDaniel being married was a mistake/misunderstanding...I remember seeing one saying that and then it was rescinded...

RE: Jesus is knocking

@123butterflies Or maybe we are hard to hear... I went to the door yesterday (because I heard knocking) and found out it was the television...same thing with the phone

RE: The writer

You definitely could attract someone with a blog. So start planting your garden for the flowers!

RE: Who's Viewed Me...

Men are curious creatures. (Of course, so are women.) Maybe its the secret box?