calmheartseeks Blog Comments (1,531)

RE: Is the end near?

True Molly...the end is nigh...especially when high...

The general consensus is it will come unexpectedly.

So all these people trying to pinpoint the time...are wasting their time.

RE: Is the end near?

Interesting blog, some questions I'd like to explore. Could get interesting...

RE: Is the end near?

Johnny, the reference book you are thinking of is a concordance, like Strongs.

RE: Cant beat a bit of Elvis Presley,......................

Yes, he was just too shocking, CC.

He mellowed out a little as he got older (I think?) :) But there was a reason he did it. The girls would go wild everytime it happened onstage.

RE: Cant beat a bit of Elvis Presley,......................

I have never seen an Elvis impersonator who I would mistake for Elvis.

RE: Yawwwwwwwwwwwn

CC, regarding people who are board.

Tell them to get an iron. Then they'll be an ironing board.

RE: Melania Trump "Hottest First Lady!"

R u kidding me?

I find it kinda sad Shine.

RE: Melania Trump "Hottest First Lady!"

True, Itchy. It really caught my attention.

Usually it's the wife who is standing there.

RE: Not mocking. Just saying. Oh, and this isn't politics (YAY)

Something wrong in the presentation of God there...fear and hate is never the way to go.

He portrayed the innocence and confusion of the little boy well though. Methinks his own experience?

RE: Im back,...................

Home, for hell to break loose it must be hiding in there in the first place.

It's probably a good way to vet a potential partner. Give them a few drinks and see what happens.

RE: He probably didn't care about her;

Should we get some pasta?

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

Gosh, Lily.

To know others feel that way, it's sad but has its message.

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

Shinegirl said:

For anybody to remember me at all after I pass is remarkable. So many times I've asked the question to myself if I left this earth today would anybody even notice? Would I be missed? What do people think of me? I'm speaking for myself here, but it wouldn't bother me in the least if you resurrected one of my blogs and carried on. In fact, I'd think that everybody was just starting up the party again. laugh Some people really feel alone in this world. For someone to tell me they even thought of me in any such way or form would amaze me.

It's funny you should mention this, Shine. I was just thinking something similar the other day, for example, if I just stopped posting here on CS, would anyone even miss me? For someone to care and be thought when gone is definitely a special thing.

RE: How could you deal with these?

Mimi,
You are right to feel uncomfortable if someone keeps asking if you are alone or live alone.

Either he is interested in your or he has other ideas, not good ones.

Please take good care of yourself...you are not too old to still have a child, and have much time to still find the right man for you.

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

I was looking at the people standing around and at the tables too, Lindsey. The white shoes were just an accent. Looking back, I think the man's suit is brown, not burgundy.

Have not seen the movie, but Mr. Pacino's comments surprised me with a laugh...although drunk and belligerent, his address to them was sadly a little bit true.

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

Itchy , no, I don't have a thing for men with white shoes.

It's just that they distracted me in the video as it looked like he was wearing a burgundy suit and he was close to the focal point of the main character. Maybe it was my monitor.

I guess I just don't know men's fashion.

RE: I know I'm right. My friends say so.

Thanks!!! Haven't forgotten it yet.

RE: I know I'm right. My friends say so.

@chicken feet plate. (to try to forget the sight.)

Leg/Biff, I agree with you about Voltaire's comment and your observation. Very scary.

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

Itchy, watching the video, I kept getting distracted by the man with the white shoes.



I do enjoy movies that have messages like that...and blogs like this one that have a real sharing of feelings, of selves.

RE: Is talking about our dead members of this blog land a deface in their memory?

Lindsey, beautiful lady,

I did not know what had happened to them either, until that update.

I agree with you that holding someone in remembrance is an honor, not a defacement.

Maybe its because I am not sure what is meant by that?

The only thing that bothers me is that their profiles look that they are current members (though it does show the last logged on date, which could mean lots of things.)

RE: always remember

It doesn't hurt to be tall as well.

(Just kidding 'ya.)

Totally agreement with your statement.

RE: I know I'm right. My friends say so.

I like drumsticks myself.

RE: I'm young, and I'm bored.

Always nice to post a blog, don't respond to any comments, and hide your profile ride after. Kinda ranks with the "no comments allowed" blog.

They both "blow".

(I'm just kidding you. Hope you come back and share more about that one girl.)

RE: Heart Broken

Was the 93 year old woman a blonde?

(JUST KIDDING BRITISH.)

RE: Missing CS Member Is Doing Just Fine...

I did notice he hadn't been posting.

So sorry to hear about his health, have said a prayer for his well being.

Thanks for letting us know.

RE: Hopeless

Shine, I have heard about gaslighting (and no, not what Wiz said).

I agree it is serious issue, the OP really was asking for feedback...that's why she posted.

We may not have been lucky to have found the right one or be in a relationship at the moment, but that doesn't mean we haven't been through things in life or have experiences/insights to share.

RE: Hopeless

You've been together five years...I assume not married? Have you ever discussed marriage with him? Just curious as you really need to get your cards straight before taking such a step.

I know some counselors are not worth much. But there are some good ones...if not a counselor, a clergy person, friends, family, or some other respected individual that might lend you an ear.

You might also try meditation because reading your posts, you sound very excitable with thoughts jumping all over the place.


One thing you mentioned: you are afraid there isn't anything better, you have to take the bad with the good rather than nothing at all.

Not if you are in a lot of pain and stress.

Do you know what that does to a body?

Believe me, you should never have to put up with a relationship that makes you want to stop living at times.

RE: Hopeless

Well, first of all, you start off saying that you're always finding yourself stuck in situations where the one you're with brings you down. Why do you think that happens? Have you ever gone for counseling? It really might be insightful as to why you allow yourself to be treated this way by someone you "love".

Love/attraction is a mysterious thing, and it is not always good for us. It sounds to me like this guy has shifting moods so has problems of his own. You are right that he will probably not change unless he is the one who desires it.

Have you communicated to him "what he does to you"? You say he will never see or understand it. Why not?

There are a lot of questions you need answers to.

One thing I can tell you...time DOES matter.

Don't let these precious years of your life slip away when you might change things for the better.

You are not hopeless and it is not your destiny unless you want it to be so.

By posting this blog, I know you don't.

RE: Love the message and meaning here

Shaken, had trouble making out the lyrics with the video sound on my laptop, so looked it up:



Very good song, captures the hopelessness well.

RE: Talking with a friend...

I would bet Ian has not seen it all.

He has seen a lot from his particular vantage point.

But its a big, wild, crazy, amazing world out there.