Have good quality and an atmosphere that represents your aesthetics (hopefully they're good). Make sure that one who comes for a drink once, comes again. Being true to your cafe will bring you customers as much as being true to yourself will bring you dates
I usually keep my cursor on 5 and look for reasons to go above or beyond. I find the whole ratings thing a very funny game:). specially for a male, it's like a dream come true (thinking of all those teen college movies with the fraternities and stuff). I wouldn't worry bout things, but i've noticed you can check out who's rated you above 8 or smth, which can be handy if you're actually looking for someone, or if you feel like a reality check. seriously though, at the begginning i was just loving it! (had to share that!!!)
and there's also the wierd one: I love you because you love me. and also I love you because you don't and also i love you cause there's no one else. go figure.
Seems to come out of a contemporary documentary on quantum physics :) I've always liked goethe, specially for his "wrong" colour theory. It's prob time i read a bit more. thank you for sharing this.
RE: I AM IN LOVE!
rock on CS!!!!