Did you get this idea from this Jennifer Lopez Movie? She got herself impregnated and then started seeing this guy while she was expecting?? I forgot the name
But on a serious note, if your sole purpose is to "walk into a woman's life that thinks no one will ever want to be with her because she has a child and show her that shes wrong...." Then I must say you should rethink your idea mate.
I would never be with someone just to prove anybody wrong?
OK. Means you bought your wife for about 30 dollars from some store? how many more wives do you have? Do you wash you wife daily? What's her name? Chester Bernard? CK?
Another book that I just came across. "MOJO" By Marshall Goldsmith (How to get, how to keep it, how to get back if you lose it) but it's more business management driven. I haven't read it as yet. You can find it at
Such a smooth flow of thoughts at the age of 21. I encourage you to please explore the writing spark in you more. Only good thinkers are good writers. Keep it up
Hahahahaa! The daylight saving hours. That's real funny. Cos I faced the same problem when they changed an hour. The reason being that the our body's biological clock does not easuly accept it. So I found a real stupid but effective way to cope with it. I call it my KiSSS formula. (Keep it Simple, Straight and Stupid)
I did not change the time in my wrist watch and persuaded myself that now I'd have to get up for work an hour earlier. That's it. it was difficult initially when the whole world around you followed the new time. But in reality when you look at your wrist watch it gives your mind the psychological contentment that you're still on your own schedule that you're really used to. I mean why the hell should I train my bodyclock otherwise when I know they would reverse the hour back after 6 months? I am not going to do the drill again after 6 months for the new time you know?
I think the mojos that work during the night time get more done
Yes I have a book to recommend. It's "Make the most of your mind" by Tony Buzan. This book addresses mojos in depth. Somehow whenever i read it more than 2 pages I got a headche so I finished it by reading a little at a time over a year. But it's a true masterpiece.
My mojo is most active during the night time. Specially the period between 10 pm to 3 am. Whenever I lose my mojo, I find it usually during this specific period.
The point is that we all have a trance period of our own during the day when the mojo is most active. You may have yours too. My advice is to find your mojo during this period only. It's a tested method.
You may not be happy when you know what you want. Becasue then, most of the time you'll keep worrying whether you would get what you want and if you don't get it, you would be extremely unhappy.
And, if you do get what you want, eventually, then you would want something else! Or may be you'd think you didn't want it actually as it was not right for you. Then you'll be entrapped in the "wanting" cycle permanently.
I think you are better off now and more happy! So chill!
I have seen them a lot in KL. But this pic is perhaps from Selangor adjacent to KL. I like both places and always have great fun when I am there for vacation. Cool place, great food.
Trust your instincts always. Even if you find out later that you were wrong. The collective benefits are way more than the losses.
Drea is absolutely right about the VIBES that we all emit. Since most people don't really know what vibes really are and how they work, people are often confused as you are now.
Just to explain a bit, people can fake appearances, behaviors and stances but not the vibes. It's a real footprint of one's thought processes and personality traits deeply embeded in the mind, heart, and soul developed over a long period of time. I always feel it when I shake hands for the first time or be in a close proximity around that person.
Over time I have learnt that I should have trusted my instncts in cases where I chose otherwise. Not necessarily in personal relationships but in all parts of life.
Somehow, I just refuse to be like that NOW. Even when there are certain situations and make you feel that way. Been there, felt that, and been over with.
Here's what I do. I am never bored. I am always busy at will. I look after more people than crave to be looked after. I read, write, learn, teach, study, work, travel and most important of all, I dream. The day only has 24 hours and it goes by like a flash.
I think what you are really missing here is a "Purpose". Find it. Don't wait for it to come to you. Also, I have an immediate remedy suggestion.
Visit a foster home as soon as you can. Spend some time there. make it a regular scedule for a day every week. You will feel better immediately. Trust me!
The logic behind giving them a chance is that since you never gave them your trust and they never knew about it. Why would they be liable for anything then? So I think they do deserve another chance. This time knowing they are being trusted. No?
Second logic is that, through experience, I have realized that it is the people from the second category who become trusted one day, and shift to the first category. The genuine first category are only your parents.
People from the middle category always stay there as they tend to remain dicey and ambiguous.
One more thing. There is always some 'Trust Deficit' in all relations. 100% trustworthiness is only available in Utopia. So we must learn to forgive and forget to be happy!
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Did you get this idea from this Jennifer Lopez Movie? She got herself impregnated and then started seeing this guy while she was expecting?? I forgot the nameBut on a serious note, if your sole purpose is to "walk into a woman's life that thinks no one will ever want to be with her because she has a child and show her that shes wrong...." Then I must say you should rethink your idea mate.
I would never be with someone just to prove anybody wrong?