Got to love snow, ice, fishing, camping, snow machining, and either tiny, tiny, villages with no electricity or running water half the year, or the "big" cities where not much really goes on...lol
Why not join a local group that has the same interests as yourself? Or jump into the international forums...get to know people. Life isn't about sitting around waiting for the love of your life to show up by a miracle in your lap. Life is about living it to the fullest, jumping in head first, making mistakes, learning and laughing. Playing the waiting game and feeling like nobody cares or listens just makes you feel sorry for yourself. Only YOU can make yourself happy, someone in your life just enhances the happiness.
I figured when I was in my teens that I was not the standard definition of pretty, cute, beautiful, or so on, but what I did have seemed to attract the boys that I was interested. Once, I asked one the boys what made me attractive to them and he told me it was the way that I carried myself, the way I spoke, and the little random acts of weirdness that I have in me and that come out whenever they feel like, that made me attractive to him.
So because of that one comment (many, many, many moons) I learned that I am just as beautiful in my own way as many other women and it was the person that I perceived myself to be and the belief that I had in myself that made me attractive.
Normally, if a guy is that insensitive and wants to hurt you with words, it is because they don't have confidence in themselves and treat others harshly when they have been rejected - it is easier to make someone else hurt/feel pain than it is to feel pain.
Just dust their comments off your shoulders, hold your head up and men will flock to you.
amahlala Blog Comments (11)
Welcome to the funny farm! You should jump into the forums more often to meet some of the people....
RE: good bye