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RE: What should we do?

Also listen to me live concert music on you tube. Put your headphones & watch your favorite band .I enjoy it so much while i chat with people. Something new ...wave banana

RE: What should we do?

What i do is i go to starbucks, get me some iced charamel machiato coffe, drive my car while listening music then get back home & chat with new female friends & i don't feel lonely like that. Keep yourself entertained & try to go out with new friends that way u know somebody new & he could be your match......Stay happy ..

Vickteddybear

RE: did I do the right thing?

You did the right thing. You don't have to wait for him if u don't want to. It's his loss. He cares about himself & you should care about yourself & your needs. Always prioritize yourself ,just like he did to himself.wave teddybear

RE: Am I wrong?

Hi Shellyb 1980.well it's not nice to control & cuss somebody, even though u guys were together .The way you behaved with him he would think you are an angry & controlling woman. So he gave up on you.
Always show others you're a respectful & professional woman,that will attract men even more.
Don't rush for now,take your time ,chat with others & see which one is best for you & without getting upset.
Hope i gave u some great ideas .
teddybear

RE: Where is the best place to meet a guy

You never know. It might be here in this site or any place. But i think the best place would be if one of your friends introduces you one of their friends either in their house or any other place.Take some time to know him well. Hope u find your dream man.teddybear

RE: Not all are one-night-stand

Not at all. You went there to listen music , sure it's nice to have a great conversation with a guy but i would never go to his place without knowing him. He's the one looking one night stand. So don't feel bad , it's very hard to trust somebody nowadays.
Hope u find your match soon.
Take care & enjoy listening to music.teddybear

RE: any volunteer??hehe

Yep, i'll be there soon for a date. Happy Valentines day........

RE: How can I?

Well first you should love yourself more than anybody else.If he's still with his parents then he's not grown up. Leave him alone & find a MAN ,not Mama's Boy. Don't u think so? Let him go Ranjilyn. teddybear

RE: Why you did this to me?

Yep, he's insescure & not ready. Move on with your life & he has not right to get in your personal life. Don't let him bother you, just ignore him .

RE: fears

I won't disapear from you ,we can chat always even if we are only friends.Promise.wave

RE: How to build self confidence

Just be who you are.Prepare yourself, be polite, professional, friendly with nice smile, look at somebody's face .But what u should do is have a nice friend maybe male friend have him talk to you and see how he talks, how he thinks,you'd suprsie how much self confident you can built and you can read some "Self Confidence" books. I'd be glad to chat with you & see how i think or any person that u might think he's appropiate to chat with him.Take care Frisca , if u have any question or if you desire to chat with me then let me know. You won't be regreted.
Take care & have a wonderful day.teddybear

RE: are there any decent guys my age ?

Well don't waste your time looking for someone in that age range, even guys at ages 30's are still immature so imagine age 18.Plus you're still young , enjoy your life now ,try to make friends first then see which one is the best match for you, or maybe u should find somebody older that 23 .I wish u the best .Take care Ayamelek & have a lovely day.wave

RE: well feel better today

I'm alone too Indamel.So you're not the only one but be patient,meet somebody in public if u find somebody interesting form this site,build some frienship with him then see how it goes.Be happy,stay cool & control your emotions. You'll find somebody when you believe in yourself and confident. Cheer up and i wish you the best.sad flower

RE: ..:)

I would say mostly his personality,character,his smile,the way he treats you, the way he thinks, being considerate, thougtful & caring.Plus other things like physical attraction or anything attracts you most. dancing

RE: Confused

Too early to be engaged.You still need your freedom,you need to enjoy your life.Normaly a good age for a woman to get married is 27.Go & have fun & if both love each other then both should understand & know that both need your freedom.If you're not sure about something then don't do it ,otherwise you'll feel sorry.Anyway take care & stay beautiful like you're always.

RE: Should ladies initiate communication?

I think so. It shouldn't be any problem, if a guy doesn't respond you then why bother? That way you know he's not the one for you.A gentleman should understand you,listen to you & both being matures you can initiate a wonderful conversation even though both of you want to be friends & nothing more.So give it a chance ,if not then he might never give a chance to himself.applause

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