yan, when did you learn German? Once i learnt French myself. But i found it difficult and i didnt have time, mood and determination to learn it. and give it up for ever.
Things here now are very different from what you experienced when you were young. We all want to get a stable job and work there for many years, but just as what you said, sometimes we feel unhappy and sometimes the jobs can not offer security to us, so we quit.
The rule is, the strong will always win, while the weak will always lose. Time will tell. Time will demonstrate.
I am glad that you like the “introductory sentence”.
I guess this question has been discussed for many times. For some reasons, western women do not want those western men, so those western men go to find asian women.
Yes, that it is. When we get something, such as “making money, career, advanced education and more responsibilities etc” as you said, we have to lose something…we can not have them both.
A quotation from that blog is: “Somehow, for some reasons, some friends have been forgotten; and at certain times, we suddenly realize that we are lonely in this world.”
But I seldom look back. I don’t want to look back. No matter how it is, I always think that the future is more attractive even though the present is so-so.
Bring it in the form of a published book?? Thanks for the kind suggestion. But you know, nowadays, publishing company is market-oriented, and I don’t think my blogs are market-oriented. Anyway, I don’t really care whether it is in the form of a published book or just usual blogs on the internet. I just consider it as a part-time fun, to write down my real life, real world.
Thank you Drea111. Yep, maybe you find your past is also like a dream too. Maybe we all find that our pasts are just like dreams… Or maybe life is a dream.
Thank you, maxmate. I always appreciate your comments to these blogs here. Insightful, positive, objective, inspiring and healthy. And thank you for your kind encouragement.
Brunetteteen:“I just wish i was one of those people who could find a perfectly handsome boyfriend, who was thoughtful, kind, funny and polite with no hitches whatsoever, and keep them for many years.”
Lol… Who doesn’t wish such kind of wishes and who can really fulfill such kinds of wishes?
Some people love crazily, as a result, they collapse like an earthen wall.
Some people are always dreaming, so they are always a step away from what they want.
If you ask what is the most beautiful thing in the world, love is absolutely a miracle.
You know, there is always a heart in the distance, no matter how far he is, you will always find him. You can even recognize him among so many people at the first sight.
I am from China. Things here are totally different. I have many relatives doing business and making their living in North America or South America. Before they immigrate there, their old relatives, their parents, their grandparents warn them never never marry foreigners... for some reason. As to those in China, our parents, our relatives, our grandparents warn us the same things…Even though it is young foreigners we are strongly against it, let alone dad-typed old men.
Dadvic, let me kindly give you some suggestions. Those moms who want to introduce their daughters to you are just stupid moms and those young daughters are stupid young girls… While they are using your Canadian money, they may think about their secret young Philippine lovers...I guess you are wise enough not to jump into such kinds of traps…
“Oftentimes the loss of love may leave such a void in our hearts we want to die, but truly loving another is setting them free and wanting their happiness in everything.”
Calmheartseeks, your comments are always so insightful.. I like it. Yea, it is inappropriate to “die” for the love of one person. But sometimes you can’t help it.
I thought I had died several years ago. But recently I found that my heart is still jumping. Sometimes it jumps so quickly that I nearly can not breathe. I guess only I die can I be reborn.
Venus, I agree with you on some of your points. Yes, we decide to do it and we take the action. But sometimes I found that even though I took actions, I still could not get the results. And sometimes I do think it is because I take the actions first that leads these results.
why you have found your lover at this site why do you still hate it i haven't found mine but i still like it!!!!! just because there are people like me who hold such kind of opinions so you hate it? oh no....
Hi hi john… Are you saying me? Oh no no need to be so angry. That’s only My opinion and as long as your 38-year-old girlfriend does Not think so, it just doesn’t matter as to what we say, does it? As long as you and she get along well with each other, what we are saying is just a slight dust, nothing important.
Jealous? Ha ha… of course everybody will be jealous. I admit that I am jealous sometimes, but it is Not “Jealous” that makes me hold this opinion…
I hope you and she will have a good and happy future..
lol.. if i am that older woman, i am willing to find the much older man rather than the younger one... you know, no matter how old he is, if we are older than them, most of the time we will think that they are unmature.. in their mind... generally, those who are younger than me are a little unmature compared to me. even though those who are around my age, sometimes i still think that they are unmature... in their brains.
and i think it will be more safe, more stable to marry the one whose parents are good friends of your parents... Actually most of my friends get married in this way... meet the boys with the help of our family or relatives and then both of us seem ok then a good marriage comes our for a life time...
and please do not leave this site just because you get engaged...this site is not only limited to love between man and woman... it is also about friendship.
hello moonlove. best wishes to you. i can understand your mom and your choice as i am also traditional. i may find my husband in the same way as yours, too. because our family are also traditional... best wishes!!
and i am not going to judge my friends or even my boyfriend or the relationship with him according to such kind of science. there are always some gaps between theory and reality.
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yan, when did you learn German? Once i learnt French myself. But i found it difficult and i didnt have time, mood and determination to learn it. and give it up for ever.