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RE: WHY HE HOT AND COLD?

He was probably just having a busy day... If it keeps happening and he's being so unresponsive and feels like he's playing games with u.. then he probably is.. mind games are for people who are looking for fun not for people who are looking for a serious relationship. If ur not into his mind games then I'd suggest chewing ur leg out of that bear trap and move on to the next.. plenty of fish in the sea.. u will eventually catch one to ur taste!
good luck girl! cheering

RE: What can i do to keep him. . .

If ur looking to buy urself some time then i'd suggest sending messages that aren't too long.. cos if they are it means that u are talking about a lot of different things and probably in a lot of detail.. and that means that u can soon find urself running out of things to say. Tell ur stories but dont give away all the details so that ur giving him a chance to ask u questions and so that u will have the opportunity to reply. if he keeps asking questions then it means he's listening as well as interested.. if not then.. well at least u kno not to waste anymore time on him. This works both ways.. so u will need to get interested in whats goin on with him too.. otherwise it'll just get boring.
Either way.. dont put too much expectation on anything.. if its meant to b it will happen! Good luck

RE: Can a guy at age 20 get a first girl friend?

Rome wasn't built in a day, if it was I can promise u it wouldn't look as beautiful. Take ur time and don't rush urself, what's good is usually worth the wait. Good luck

RE: for all the gals in here who lov men!!!!

No point in limiting ur choices for something that isn't certain yet.. its the same reason why u would find urself talking to several regular users at the same time. It would become a problem if u became a proper couple and he was still loggin onto sites like these.. that's when u should log on and look for a replacement laugh

RE: What attracts people to eachother?

The want for Happiness is what attracts ppl together.. u start to fall for someone when for the first time u realise that they make u really happy, whether its a joke they tell, a meal they cook or just the warmth of their hand on yours... whatever it is..they have given u a feeling that u like and feel happy about and that makes u crave it more.. and as long as you can give each other this happiness, this craving.. the relationship will keep going.. as it is the fuel that moves the relatiosnip...
The relationship dies when the fuel runs dry.. and that happens when ppl stop trying and start taking each other for granted..its sad but it happens all too often

RE: I'm losing all hope...

Hey Girl,

I kno exactly what you mean.. and yes it can be very disheartening and can make u feel like giving up altogether..
How do i kno?.. because I've been there.. but here's what i figured.. u can only be disappointed if u expect .. so go into every relationship with little to no expectation.. don't expect him to be this or that.. rather go into it with the thought of getting to kno this person.. if u don't like what this person actually is, then get out asap.. dont hang around and wait for things to change.
Don't decide that ur want to be alone or not.. go with the flow.. if u meet someone nice and think ur feeling something.. then give it a shot..if not..then u have a new friend!
There's no need to project any image of urself.. just be who u are, ppl can sense when u are comfortable with urself and that can help to attract the right ppl into ur life.. let it be friends or partners...
Ur not puttin any pressure on the guys as u say.. the only person u r putting pressure on is urself!.. learn be nicer to urself and be more light-hearted and when u learn to b truely happy with that..happiness will find u even if u try to hide!

Good luck :)

RE: WOMEN WHO DON'T WRITE BACK


This is a really nice and short response!!!.. well thought out girl! Thanks a mill!
If they send msg back asking why they're not a match, can u not respond to that, cos that can lead to some hurt feelings, like u said before ppl dont like to hear that they're too short or whatever?

RE: WOMEN WHO DON'T WRITE BACK

What are u suppose to say if some1 isn't ur type and they seem like nice ppl? it would b mean just to say.. "u seem like a nice guy but ur not my type" if ur gpnna get a response like that isn't better to not get a reply at all? if it was the other way around i kno i'd prefer to not get a reply at all!
there is no nice way of doing it really cos some1's feelings will always get hurt :(

RE: Sick Of Being In A Relationship..

The guy ur talking about sounds like a nice guy.. but nice or not, u kno its not right when its not right!
I was in a relationship for 7 yrs and eventually broke it off cos i knew it wasn't right.. staying in a relationship out of fear of being alone is not a reason to stay in 1 at all, if anything it is the reason to not stay in it anymore.
U should be missing him the moment u turn around and leave, not dreading to see him next weekend!
If u feel there is something there that might be worth working for then talk it out with him and tell him what ur not happy about (like things have gotten too routine or that he doesn't give u the right attention etc.) but if u are so sure about how u feel then stop stringin him along like that emo guy is doing to u.. its not nice.. and forget thinking about ur ex, just remember that u broke up for a reason!
Now if ur so sure about how u feel about ur boyfriend, then break it off with him clean, if u can't say no to him then just don't pick up his calls or respond to his msgs therefore u wont nee dto say anything to him at all, he'll get the message after a month or 2 and he'll learn to thank u in years to come!
Meanwhile enjoy ur young single life as u certainly seem to prefer to be and when someone right comes along u will kno cos everything will feel more natural and seem like less of a drag and more to the point u will kno what it feels like to b happy and content with ur partner!

Good luck!

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