This is a tough one. True, some people would not know what they would do until it happens to them, but for some by the time it does happen, it could be entirely out of their hands. For some they may recover, but for some they may not and I would not want to suffer the indignity of that.
well no easy answer as there are a lot of angles to take this from, but sometimes and this is just one angle, people loose connection. They may have set out to have a family and once that has been achieved, the question for some is then what as they stare across the table at each other and ask is this as good as it gets? I am not trying to be cynical here just offering up a view.
Sometimes I am tempted to go short and have done in the past for a change of look, but some women I think assume shorter hair is the way to go when they get older, but it doesn't have to be that way. But it does take time caring for hair if you want a particular style and look. Sometimes I think why not just go the whole way and shave it off. I have never tried that look. Too cold now anyway and could I go through with it anyway?
I am so sorry to read this and there is nothing wrong with telling people but this sort of thing may scare people not always because they are shallow but because they don't know what may happen in the future. I think better to start out as friends and let them get to know you first. But only you can decide. All the best!
Because it is natural for some people to want to love someone and be loved and maybe this want and/or need is projected on to someone and they sense the desperation?
Nobody here has the right to comment on what type of person she is or what her motivations are. The woman is unable to speak for herself and this is someone's marraige people are commenting on. At the end of the day these 2 people must do what is right for them.
Having read advice since my last comment, I disagree Divorce is the way to go right now and urge you to try to detach yourself from the raw emotion and try to keep open communication with your wife with view to solving the problem and reconciliation. But this really depends on you both and you may have some difficult moments along the way, but if you are both committed you can work this out. If not and I think it could take up to a year, you could aim towards an amicable separation. I also think it important your son knows both parents love him and it is not his fault. I am sure you would not say otherwise as a parent.
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This is a tough one. True, some people would not know what they would do until it happens to them, but for some by the time it does happen, it could be entirely out of their hands. For some they may recover, but for some they may not and I would not want to suffer the indignity of that.