i think it is both. but all the relationships i have had in the past 5 years have been from the internet looking. it may just be less frustrating not looking because then you are not feeling disappointed, versus on the internet we are searching and waiting to see if that guy emailed us back etc.
i believe there are multiple people ok for us. no one is going to meet all of our standards. we just need to find someone close enough to what would make us happy.
i am not new and appreciate your kind words. there comes a point though when one realizes that you will not find your "soulmate". hate to burst bubbles but it is what it is.. think existentialism.
listen, you r a young 18 yr old. have fun and don't be too hard on yourself. if u start to feel bad, just think of me and being alone and i am a heck of a lot older than u.
It is slow, but eventually you will find the right girl. It also helps if you don't rely on online dating as the sole way of meeting people. I kind of see it as just something extra I am doing to put myself out there and see if I just get lucky.
I have been online dating for about 3 years. There is no set answer unfortunately.. But I will say in order to increase your odds, you need to be very honest and upfront with what your looking for w/ a man in the beginning. Otherwise you just end up wasting time and getting hurt down the road.
I wish there was some way to not feel lonely for a relationship. Sometimes I think that would just be easier. It's not that I need one, but I sure do get lonely without one that no friend, family, hobby can take care of. Anyone that tells me different is lying or not human.
ok i see what u are seeing, being that they didn't have dna testing then. but i am talking about now.. not back in the past. it is still seen as a double standard, and should be stopped!
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RE: love
i think it is both. but all the relationships i have had in the past 5 years have been from the internet looking. it may just be less frustrating not looking because then you are not feeling disappointed, versus on the internet we are searching and waiting to see if that guy emailed us back etc.i believe there are multiple people ok for us. no one is going to meet all of our standards. we just need to find someone close enough to what would make us happy.
good luck