well if its any conselation, i know drunks dont need to be enabled, and unfortunately they hurt the ones they truly love, and u need to feel the pain, that it caused you but also have to start enjoying life again.........a new beginning for you.....and his destiny is created by him.......sincerely, wish you the best...
hi amrita, i think i reread ur blog 5 times, not sure here yet, but gonna give it a whirl, i think trying to be good 2 oneself and others is a crucial stepping stone in our journey, and being ourselves, is the utmost important quality we have, thats who we are, i love being me....and for being either judged or critized, and i honestly, personally, myself, really dont care wat ppl think of me, if im doing "goodness" from my heart or just being little ole me, this is who i am.....judgements and critizims are inevitable through our walk of live, its how we handle them is the real question...i do believe, we should always try to be good, do good and always be ourselves cuz thats wat makes us special, regardless of wat ppl think, and im not quite sure yet where god fits in this, need to think more on that, sorry.....
i was just fooling aroun ruben...it took me along time to love myself before i could even committ to another realtionship...long time, and had many insecurties in the past, still do, but i have a partner with unconditional acceptance, and i keep learning something new everyday...i still have alot of growing to do...
@ ruben.... thanks, to funny actually i had to go bak and read my own blog to see wat i posted... but, hear wat ur saying, i quit drinking 2 yrs now and 98 days now, i think, but my daughter reminds me of the exact days... and i learned alot about myself after, and my rules of happiness i do try to apply everyday now, but i do struggle everyday, and now realize i need to take one day at a time, and everyday is my gift i'm very lucy...
thanks moon... although this blog totally got hijacked by ven and her drinking buddies... i truly do believe moon, everyday is a gift, but it took me along time to figure it that out....
ok, jam, you know i still dont know where your shirt is... we have had this discussion....but thinking here... u are trying to say that women are stereotyped and labelled to be selfish as a result of loving their husbands to much........thinking, u need to come to my blog and drink a wittle bit.... then jam eveything seems clearer and u get all the answers you need...
ok, well since i am drinking alone... my gift for today is being able to laugh and share things with u guys, and smile, appreciate it, really....thanks....
just thought of something i drink alone alot... but dont worry im find with that, this way....ven.....they are ALLLLLL MINE....
hope u all just remember, seriously, everyday is a true gift, hope u all enjoy unwrapping....... and tomorrow we wont worry about, cuz i's still drinking...
mikey, a raincheck... valid for how long though, cuz i hate booze sitting to long.... and we all have an empty house, dont be a wuz....suk it up buttercup....
not sure mikey, but when u blow her up with too much air, somtimes she just goes "POP"...before you do..... not sure.... drink? cuz apparently ven is handing them out like there is no tomorrow.....
and oh yaaaaaaaa......no negative icons happening here.... happy happy good day, life can be good, but only if u want it to be....for today........do u notice something.. im trying really really hard to stay on blog topic here........drink?
i love rain 2 ven.... always thought of making love in the rain with my man... soft warm gentle rain falling.....ok, now i am gonna friggin open up the keg u brought, drea and shell drank it all...and thanks by the way, as well for all the other party treats, sweet . but being positive takes alot of booze .....so how are you?
RE: Its for the best...
well if its any conselation, i know drunks dont need to be enabled, and unfortunately they hurt the ones they truly love, and u need to feel the pain, that it caused you but also have to start enjoying life again.........a new beginning for you.....and his destiny is created by him.......sincerely, wish you the best...