I've never had a long distance relationship so I am not sure what the solution is. Would it be fair to expect a man to pay for a plane ticket out and then reimburse him for half once he actually shows up?
Sounds like you have had your share of death and trauma in your life. You know, some people carry an energy that is like an angel energy. Are you a person who is drawn to people who are sick because you see the potential of who they could be under all those problems, only to discover that they never can get to the place of seeing that themselves?
This is a lifetime for us to heal ourselves. We can't do anything to help another person unless they are taking steps themselves to heal. If they just keep whining about their problem but continue the behavior, then there is really nothing you can do unless you are okay with drowning with them.
If it were me, I would remain being a not too close friend ( in other words not a person he dumps on) and keep encouraging him to grieve his son and to get professional help.
There are a lot of shifts happening these days. So many strange things going on in the world. All of us that are into tuning into higher frequencies are going through major physical and emotional changes. You are not alone, my friend. The most important thing to do is to not judge it and to know that it is a natural part of the process of this time.
The only thing that is helping me is to keep bringing myself back to the present moment. I am being guided to make a lot of changes and I am getting overwhelmed at times with the "to do" list and the unknown outcome. It is a time for trust and letting go of self doubt.
I think this place is great for learning what we like and what we don't like in a partner and relationship. I think it is helping us define more clearly what we really want. So as we do that, it won't matter whether it is here or in the real world that we meet that special someone, they will be more closely aligned with our desires because we are putting out the signals with more precision.
So yes, I do think there is value in what we are doing here.
Why are you being attacked? Just because you are Christian? And you wrote that most of the attackers are Christians? I'm confused....
Anyway, the original meaning of "to teach" was "to demonstrate". Perhaps you would not be attacked if you stopped preaching and just started demonstrating Christ consciousness instead.
Demonstrating is the best way to show the value of the teachings. Many talk the talk but few walk it. That's just my opinion. Good luck and God bless.
Now this should be an inspiration to Mike! He has been doubting the validity of being on CS. So funny, Hellrazer, I just talked about you on another blog, like 10 minutes ago. Weird....
There he is! Haven't seen you around for a long time, Hellrazer! Glad you and Smittens are still together. Hope you and CT can keep the down so we can all banter together and have Good to see you!
Are you just plain nutters? Your picture is not even of a woman! I have never seen a woman with sideburns like that, anyway. Well, more power to you! Have fun and good luck!
The key to change...is to let go of fear. That is the one that best fits me. I don't mind change unless I am at loose ends and feeling like I don't have a clue what is coming next. It is my key obstacle this life. Staying in the present moment is the only thing that keeps that worry mind from starting up.
Hi Whitec, welcome back! i just wanted to write to you about my understanding of releasing habits. It is really more about coming to the realization that the habit is not the issue. The habit is just the outcome or symptom of the issue. As you become happier and happier being who you really are, you will naturally let go of the habit. It will just feel like giving away an old coat that you no longer have a use for. So, you are coming to that, I can tell by what you write. Don't fret the "backslide". Just dust yourself off and keep feeling really good about yourself. The worst thing you could do is to beat yourself up for having a few cigs.
I am so glad for you! You sound really well! What an inspiration you are.
RE: I Would Love A Date Ladies
Smitts, I think Mike is talking about us!