Mr. Lookin', that sounds like a blanket statement. Surely there are many many women you have not yet met. Women look for action not talk these days. A man who says he is a good man must actually act like a good man. Hang in there, someone will appreciate you and see your best qualities!
The blogs and forums are fun. Great way to see what people are all about! There are some wonderful and friendly people here and there are some wonderful irreverent people here. It's all good! Your blog is a great start!
Trusting yourself is the only thing that matters. Once you have overcome self doubt, whatever happens will be okay. In other words, if you trust yourself to make the best decision, given the information you have at the time, even if things goes awry it will be fine. We sometimes have uncomfortable experiences in order to bring to light a wound within us that we want to heal. So though it may look like a "mistake", a decision made from the heart and your intuition will always be for your highest good.
Humans are unreliable creatures. To put trust in another is to give away your innate knowingness and will end in suffering. Trust yourself and open your heart and all will work out exactly as it should. JMO
Adam, me too!!! Trekkie going way back. I have even been to a Trekkie convention! Long time ago! Did you see the latest Star Trek movie? I thought it was great!!
Bsooner, Absolutely nothing wrong with blondes. The comment from Drea was in reference to a blog that Rapowal wrote regarding wanting a blonde woman now.
OMG, that was fabulous! How did you type fast enough to capture all of the thoughts that were streaming through your mind that way?! Great example of the monkey mind. If we could all be as aware as you are of how the mind goes off like that....
Hi LadyL, there are lots of good men out there. I'm glad you found someone you really like! My comment was aimed more at the "perfect" part as I don't think we humans are meant to be perfect., unless we are talking about being perfect in our imperfection! Just wanted to clarify that point. Have fun, fun, fun!!
I've never had a cream pie in the face. Anyone here ever volunteered for one of those booths at the school carnival and such? I am such a cornball, I laugh every time someone in a movie gets one in the face! Makes me think of that food fight scene in Blazing Saddles! Okay, I'm rambling....
Hi Laura! I know this may sound far out, but there may be someone who could help you if you are open to energy work. Email me if you would like her name and more info.
I agree that tuning in, using our intuition is the best barometer for gauging someone's sincerity. Chemistry is not, in my opinion, a good indicator of sincerity. Many people have chemistry that end up in very bad relationships. Chemistry is a biological reaction to pheromones, and can be present exclusive of sincerity.
RE: Real Men
Mr. Lookin', that sounds like a blanket statement. Surely there are many many women you have not yet met. Women look for action not talk these days. A man who says he is a good man must actually act like a good man. Hang in there, someone will appreciate you and see your best qualities!