And so you are saying that you showed up fully to these women? No hang ups, no insane moments, no disrespect-ever?
And if the answer is yes to these questions there is still no blame as you chose to be in the relationship. period. No one held a gun to your head and forced you to stay with someone who acted out in all of those ways that hurt you.
You chose it, so who do you blame? You would have to blame yourself and isn't that a waste of good masculine energy? We are the creators of our experience and we must take responsibility for that. Even if it was done from a totally subconscious or unconscious place, we must see how we created it to learn something about ourselves. Otherwise, we are completely powerless and victims of "out there".
What would light your fire? Something just for you? Painting class, yoga, hang gliding? What is a passion that you have not explored up until now?
I just started belly dance classes. What a hoot! Have the little bells around my hips and everything. Been a yogini for years but may just go to my first Kundalini class. Just suggestions- whatever you decide make it all about you!
I love the freudian slip- goes turned into gores! Is that how love feels? To be gored like a bull goring a matador? I am a Taurus woman so it would seem appropriate to use that metaphor-hehhehehhe.
Sincerely tho' you are a man who has perhaps not realized how rare you are. Could it be that the women you choose are not as enlightened as you are?
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RE: What if you keep finding the True Love
And so you are saying that you showed up fully to these women? No hang ups, no insane moments, no disrespect-ever?And if the answer is yes to these questions there is still no blame as you chose to be in the relationship. period. No one held a gun to your head and forced you to stay with someone who acted out in all of those ways that hurt you.
You chose it, so who do you blame? You would have to blame yourself and isn't that a waste of good masculine energy? We are the creators of our experience and we must take responsibility for that. Even if it was done from a totally subconscious or unconscious place, we must see how we created it to learn something about ourselves. Otherwise, we are completely powerless and victims of "out there".