Taking care of family members labels you as a special caring person. Sacrifices made now are payback for sacrifices your family made for you when you were younger. Time management will see you through your period of crisis.
I know where I stand in life. Just need a traveling companion along for the ride. Substance should triumph over humor once in a while in correspondence. Some lives missing excitement none the less maintain themselves on a sound foundation.
Eligible men and women CANNOT find anyone on this site because they never tire of bashing each other. Picky men and women can look forward to a future of complete isolation. Odd behavior earns you a worthless victory!
I used to think I needed a girl to make my life complete. Acting anxious, desperate, and needy in the company of females only made things worse. I decided in my mind I would be able to live my life alone if necessary. Now I am able to relax and make small talk with people. If I find someone great. If not; I still will be happy having my emotions under control. LOL
A level of commitment, a problem dealing with geographical location, a problem dealing with a health issue, inability to deal with cultural differences, religious beliefs, perspective in laws, educational improvement, the issue of children in a promising relationship.
Some of us fall victim to the emotional thought of "I can't wait until ____________" We never reach our desired goals because we are always procrastinating about addressing our true needs and expectations.
It's not about looks. It's about personality. When a guy wants to see a woman the second time it's her personality that excited him and vice versa. Beautiful people can be dull also. Thus are the seeds of true love always planted.
Kasih one of the most talented girls on this site being bored??? What kind of corn flakes have you been eating lately?? Volunteer work involving kids or the elderly, working at a food bank, helping to clean up the environment, collecting money for a favorite cause. Perhaps downloading a photo of me, hanging it up on a wall, and throwing darts at it till your arm gets tired hehe.
People are quick to judge older men looking for relationships. They falsely believe men always are players, divorced a few times, looking for easy conquests, sowing their oats again for bragging rights, or a widower. Older men sometimes have issues related to upbringing, war, and employment. They want to relate but face difficult challenges. They desire vitality in their relationships instead of hearing a constant flow of negative news about unfaithful spouses or fatal illness situations that tied youthful women down aging them prematurely in the process. Women looking for love and faithfulness should not place age in front of them as a major obstacle. Never allow public opinion to make decisions of the heart for you. Be your own person without feelings of guilt surrounding or affecting your options for love and lifetime satisfaction.
Beauty represents the flavoring that makes the personality more appealing. When the hook has the right bait attached a fish may be caught. If the personality is weak or not appealing beauty alone will not save the day. The decision to with hold a photo does not endear a person to those seeking social connections. Everyone has different ideas on what constitutes real beauty. You might as well roll the dice and throw your features along with everyone else's into the mix and see what happens.
Find reasons to go out with almost all men who approach you. Women who spend the major part of their adult lives rejecting men for one petty reason or another find loneliness instead of happiness to look back on upon reflection. Men are human too. No one is perfect. Women have to enter relationships at times knowing there is an improvement endeavor ahead for them. Being picky kills opportunities on all websites.
Personality and character are more important than looks. Looks are part of the total package. Looks alone will not sustain a relationship. Plain looking women do little to attract men. They are heavy, practice poor hygiene, need dental work done, have poor grooming habits. Making yourself attractive to others takes a lot of work. Many people do not want to invest the time necessary for success.
Every time I look back into the past I ask myself; "How could I be so stupid as to make the wrong decision". We are supposed to learn from our mistakes. However the greater anguish is wondering whether or not we will be given a second opportunity to redeem ourselves.
Despite sad memories in the past a person has to turn the page and move on. Receiving compliments from those who care acts as a protective shield against the sad memories of the past which should act as a wakeup call for anyone to sincerely try to improve themselves in the areas they are weak in. Many people come into the world with health problems. Many people leave this earth at a relatively young age. A day of good health is a gift from God.
Trust is something you don't share with a person right away. Trust develops over time because the deserving person demonstrates that they are interested primarily in your well being and do not under any circumstances desire to take unfair advantage over you at your expense.
What other people are saying in most instances on this issue is true. The relationship is over. However since there are seven days in a week and there are people out there like myself who still appreciate "Quiet Time" the term "Needs Space" may come to mean a few days off to read, catch up on house chores, catch up with other friends. You still like the girl and enjoy her company but need time off to focus on other issues and an opportunity to recharge your batteries.
The common practice is to discuss all serious issues with your perspective partner before taking the vows of marriage. Better to part as friends than to divorce later on as enemies.
A mailbox world gives you hope that someone out there really cares. The key is to get the same person to repeatedly over an extended period of time contact you and grow closer to you via the little red box.
People concentrate on their careers. People join the military and need time to heal after their tour of duty is over. Education requires so much concentration there is little or no time left to maintain a relationship. Women are picky. They feel they don't deserve a descent guy and settle for less. They are scared off by intelligent men. WOMEN ALWAYS MAKE THE FINAL DECISION IN THE ORIGIN OF A SOCIAL RELATIONSHIP. You cannot buy or rent happiness. You can only feel good about yourself when someone recognizes the goodness you possess and wants to become a part of it. Many people have their minds imprisoned by past experiences and always re - live the agony instead of moving on to new opportunities.
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Taking care of family members labels you as a special caring person. Sacrifices made now are payback for sacrifices your family made for you when you were younger. Time management will see you through your period of crisis.