@ johnkin.. I know ..at least I suppose you didn't reffer to me..I take not so many things personally..we were just talking around the subject..don't worry..I'm not ..
It is said..and true ..The truth is hurting..so why should I be hurt??..I'm not in the mass you've mentioned..
We can change lifes ..someone can change our life if we love each other.but don't forget we cannot change characteres.. We must be ourselves and independent..
All that happend is for a reason...all people feel rejected sometimes..it is all in balance do not worry..the stair had two senses, go up and go down..
Thank you, you have a point here, but I think that we cannot really control our thoughts 100%, no matter how good we are. When we are in love we are happy, have a lot of love for everyone and most of all for the person we love. It is sometime a kind of too much good in it, but we are not perfect, there must be a balance everywhere,and I observed myself, the more I love someone the more I hate him when the relation breaks. All the positive thoughts they come in negatives thoughts, the love becaomes hate, a coin with two sides, and there is a mix of thoughts in the same time,good and bad, till they become neutral. I also observed, and I think that many people know from experience, that any love which starts in flames it burnes so hard and fast,in the short time becomes a nothing, and ends the way it started. In my opinion the best is to start from friendship, to give time for both sides to prepare for the long trip together. I know, in the begining may be not so much fun, not so hot but it is better to build something that can lasts for long time.
And yes, retourning to the point, we are not perfect..to give love anytime..but we are created with a sistem that allowes us to not be like mashines..and that is that we can FORGIVE..give and receive..
You're right , love is within us. When I say I LOVE, I do not fail,if I'm not sure I just say it in the begining, I do not the words I LOVE YOU with out feelin, and I think also about consequences these words may have on that person if they are not true..
Sadly not all people think the same..the words do not cost money..and indeed is just for feeding the EGO..
Morning..It was not in my will to run yesterday evening but my server didn't work from some reason, and told me that the address of the site isn't good. For the moment I was scared and I've thought that the site doesn't exist anymore..
RE: don't just give up
Well if I am a looser..you have your right to try my friend....