@ed1941: Yes that's a good point too. I remember the transistor radios of way back when. But those were different, at least, when it came to getting a job. They didn't fit in your pocket, and back then, trousers weren't designed to tote around all your personal electronic devices, either. So you couldn't carry one to work surreptitiously. Also, even if you had one, and wanted to listen, it didn't occupy either hand. You could still be working, if it were allowed.
Again, I hate to sound like a grumpy oldster, but ANYTHING that distracts you from doing your job is not likely to help you keep that job. Right?
@Zmountainman: Oh yeah, that's another concern. I'm driving around on a forklift which could easily maim or kill someone. It's got lights and horns and all sorts of safety bells and whistles. But some of these guys have earbuds in so they can enjoy their Ipod tunes while they text their friends about why they won't get done early tonight. So they neither see nor hear what's going on at the job they're supposed to be at.
Hi Shamlin. Nice to meet you. Your blog here sounds a bit defensive and, well, kinda whiney. Are you certain, the problem is you telling the truth, and not, you being a whiney defensive downer? 'Cause I'll tell you, it's much easier to meet potential partners if you are upbeat and fun.
No I don't think you are expecting too much! Such gestures of affection sound natural to me. BUT: I don't know Indonesian cultural mores so well. AND: We're only hearing your side of the story. So I would have to say, Yes, you are wrong to "get angry." If you feel this should be a natural part of the relationship, and you want it, then talk with your lover about it. Educate him. Maybe he just doesn't understand. If that doesn't work, well, perhaps you got the wrong man.
Can't, Particolor. Already opened. I'm stuck. Now I'm on the clock, and here I am piddling away time on CS instead of reading Gibbon or watching Jean Renoir. Oh well. Sigh...
Enyonamvi, we only get your side of the story. But that makes it sound like a one-sided affair. I can't guess how you and she got involved, but it does not sound like a healthy and happy relationship now. May I suggest you focus more on yourself and your happiness, and cease worrying about this relationship?
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How boring R U?
Let me guess, Mike. You're new to this?