You questions are very very open. Many possibilities on this one, like the other one.
Try to be more specific, like "What will you do to show someone you love him/her, because (tell about something that happened to you in the past that makes you look for answers :p)?". Or "How do you know if someone loves you because(tell about something that happened again :p)?".
Sharing your own experience will make people understand where the core of your problem is and give you their personal advice. But every now and then a guy will come and bore you to death with his comments (that's me )!
Huh! That's not very specific for us to give you the answers you want.
I'm just doing some advertising here ! Just read my blog on "What is love?".
You might get a good idea of my opinions and perhaps forge our own. And also, look for bloggers here that are regulars. It's not uncommon to find a topic about love.
Then you can make a more specific topic for us to interact.
Wow! You are a very mean girl!!!!! But I like it :p! At least it has a different tone from the constant bashing that I get.
I never publish confidential information. Though I do put reference on certain points(If they are not deemed confidential).
If you give me your opinions on something, I will most likely reference it to the appropriate subject. If if you tell me that you have this kind of medical problem or bla! bla! bla! Then even if someone give me $1000000. My lips are sealed. Cause divulging specific problems such as "this guy has cancer" will be significant to his privacy. Where as saying " This guy was hurt, he told me this in an email" and then the others ask you for the email as proof, you look at the content and you think, "oh there is nothing that is deemed confidential at all to my standards" so you do and for me it's not wrong at all. Of course we all have a personal level of judgment. I respect people privacy, well! not everyone is my own but I respect privacy :p.
I tend to weight the impact and confidentiality level of the person according to his/her own choice or, if not present, according to his/her personality.
But this is a different topic on someone's level of acceptance of what is private and confidential. I kinda understand why it is forbidden to post Emails. We would have to argue each and every time to what is significant to being confidential and personal to that particular person. So we just have not to post anything. I learned my lesson, it hurt my pride but I learned than on this specific website, where we share the service, the rules being made is absolute, independent of what I might think is the case. And this will remain the case if I want to continue sharing it's services.
You know, a little secret, I failed English language in grade 10(I think I'm gonna get bashed by other users who will read this comment :(!!!!). So you saying that you are being confused make me think more like "Argghhh!!! Why isn't my English improving?" :p!!
Faith for me is a very hard thing to achieve. It became even more because of my hobby of engaging into debates. So I am really pleased when I see people like you who are pure by nature(It really "IS" a compliment :p)!
I do hope I pass on this one :)!!! Thanks for sharing your opinions.
Hi drea. . . .! I envy people like you who believe in themselves and are confident to tackle the future. I got this bad habit of getting too personal into things(like how we bashed each other on another blog, Sorry about that, just forget it like I will try to).
Sorry. I didn't mean to make you agitated. I was just boasting my knowledge about Rome and Juliet . I should have use more emoticons to show that i wasn't serious about it.
I see! From your description this is not a form of precognition. I am an amateur researcher on the subject of Paranormal myself. If you are interested, I would like you to help me with some questions. I will help you in return.
Hey Micheal. Thanks for the infos. I was thinking maybe you could do another blog where you talk more about what procedures you go into when you write(Hey, by writer, I hope you mean ,articles or books, or I will look like a moron ).
If that's not too private, like what do you do to get a story, how you go on to construct it, where you gather materials, how you put them together, what you do in the meantime it's being ready, if you don't have any inspiration what do you do?
Just curious about it cause I don't think I'll ever be a writer ! And I think this is a lot more relevant to your title "Being a writer".
It's just like a job application. Try everyday, till you get an interview, check the job requirement well. Then prepare for this one interview, do your best and be honest. If you fail try again :p.
There are lot of websites out there. You seems to be a bit down right now, hopefully not anymore when you read my entry :p. An important person to me once told me: "You cannot predict what will happen, all you can do it try your best and hope for it. Even if you fail, don't be sad, there are things you cannot help with, the important thing is that you tried and tried and finally when it's time to let go, do so with the a big smile on your face."
Nice heads up! But your theory has one fundamental error. One question: Will you be willing to continue chatting with someone who talk about boring stuff? Me? Don't think so! This is a dating website, sweet words and flirting is an important factor in the contribution of what people look for when they come on this website.
Instead, I think you should give guidance such as: -Don't get thing too fast. -Many people lies, look at the vegetable well, before buying not only at the appealing price :p. -Don't share personal information, even if you feel very close to the someone. -This website is only the first step of giving someone a chance for a real life(secure) meeting :p.
If you want to eat, you gotta work and get money to buy the food. The same goes for relationship.
It's true that you might not meet the one you are looking for, but if you never try then you never will. Only some rares people get food for free :p.
If I ask you what is your ideal partner, will you be able to tel me with a definite certainty? I dunno about you, but I won't cause that we think is real is just what we think, it might not be what we really want.
You gotta try, get rejected, try again, get rejected again as many time as it will take until you find the one you really want to spend your life with.
Unfortunately there is no safe way to say something to someone. As people varies in opinions and perception about things, they may think of a "good morning" as sarcastic :p.
For me the only important thing is motives. If kindness is put in words, even if it's misunderstood, there is not need to worry, but always effort to be made.
"Life is a stage and we are all it's actors. We are one character at home, another one at work, another one with friends. . .".
It's beautiful to hope and love for someone far away. The problem is "THIS IS INTERNET". Writing who you are, and acting who you are is not the same thing. If you truly want to get into a relationship you want to know the person for who he is, not his character on the net.
It's possible that it might work, though little, there are some stories of successful online long distance dating, but the real question is: are you willing to risk it?
If so then go for it. But there is no shame is trying to be safe, there is only reason.
Huh! When you were "3 years old"? Lol! You surely mean 3 years ago, or you should apply for the youngest smoker in the Guinness book of record :p!
Well! I like your typing skills and your personality of how you respond to other people's argument(although it's online). So let me share you a secret too. My first time smoking, was when I was 9. Me and my twin sister and my childhood friend, we tried to smoke, but as we couldn't buy cigarette, be choose to smoke dry wooden sticks ! But we had to hide so we hide behind the tree which was in the middle of summer so very dry, after a couple of tries we felt SICK!!!!! So we threw the branch on the soil, which was stack with dry leaves and we went back into the house. Later we hear that the neighbor's courtyard was on fire lol!!!
Now that's a valid example where trying to smoke was bad.
Well! I'm not trying to make smoking a habit, just a "treat" habit .
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RE: how to love and be loved
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