If you are kind because it makes you feel happy then thats a really good trait you have but if you feel hurt that people take advantage of you then be kind to the right people....maybe this is the part where people refer to your kindness as a weakness.....
liked the poem...just looking your profile photo...you are beautiful...we just dont let people take us for granted.... you tell a story about some people going through the same thing....
RE: who would say...
GalSome guy in your shoe could make a good match,you could both talk about your kids, maybe that could make your relationship work....