I admire your beautiful heart and salute you for being a great woman. Thank you for touching my heart and for opening my eyes to the real meaning of "unconditional love".
Venus dear, keep it coming! 'Love to exchange wits with someone of a different opinion than mine. I think it's good exercise for the intellect, as well as a good learning process. Whether i change my ideas in the end, or agree to disagree with you, it's good use of time.
Perhaps it's because i've read the whole saga - The Eclipse, which will be shown on July ist! And Breaking Dawn, which is still on the works in terms of a movie (Stephenie Meyer thinks it's probably gonna be split into two whole movies because of its length).
And because i know what happens in the end, i am adamant that following Bella's example is good for womankind! I can't tell everyone here my thoughts that are related to what takes place in the Eclipse and Breaking Dawn between Bella and Edward as well as all that they love. That's giving away the suspense and the surprise, and i don't want to take that away from movie fans, especially those who have not yet read the books.
In Eclipse, i think many people are going to hate Bella! Haha!
So I'll wait till Breaking Dawn has been shown, and I'll tell you why women should follow Bella's example. Or perhaps, I'll talk to you when you have read the books. 'Got them at home.
But one thing that comes out even from the very beginning of the movie is this: Bella was loved by Edward, not for her weakness, but actually for her strengths. Her being so different from her peers is a strength. She does not think ill of others, is not frivolous, and always truthful. These are values that are hard to find among many women today.
I am so inspired reading your thoughts..thanks everyone.
I don't have the answers. In fact, i have more questions and wonderings. It's just a curious thing for me to watch some women talk about what men should do and be, yet i don't see them ask themselves what they are willing to become in order to deserve the kind of love that's eternal and pure and well, perfect.
At this age when most women pursue challenging and demanding careers, shyness may not really be seen as a virtue. One need not see the piles and piles of self help books in stores on how to build confidence and ways to put your best foot forward on the job front, to realize this.
Sometimes I feel being Bella is a vocation. It is a transgression against the norms of human life, the practical side of it. Imagine, if there will be Bella, this world will be perfect in the name of love.
Jim, it’s a fact we have to sometimes struggle to accept. Women needs a lot of love and very emotional but sometimes man take it differently , while man thought he is giving so much love already to a woman, but a woman feels so plain. So the key is accepting this differences and learn what will make each gender tick!!
Blain, you almost there…but you missed that the chocolate has to be low calorie :-)
Drea, I’m no Paris Hilton so this is not my dog. It’s my friend’s dog that I took photo because I can see her loving it. No.. she actually loves to be pampered and dressed.
you are cute so why stumble? if a girl is attracted to you they will try hard to find a topic to chat and will see everything colorful in you. if they don't like you, it's their loss!
for those trying to find someone special online, i think this can be very challenging. how can we assess one's personality online? how can we be attracted on looks especially to those who do not post any photo or fake their picture?
i guess, these are the downside of online dating...
hi jac! yeah..its my westie , she is so playful and sweet…and I learned a lot from her
hi maxmate, thanks for the additional thoughts on what we can learn from dogs…uhhhm but “bark relentlessly till he finally agrees to take you out”.. I don’t think I can do this to my potential date !!
Yeah..our lives are not static but continually changing situations, it is unrealistic to think there is one person out there that will meet that definition of soulmate throughout our entire life.
By having that "one soulmate" viewpoint I think a lot of people limit themselves and also make it harder on themselves when a relationship doesn't work out.
I used to have the same thoughts...why is it hard to find.
I now learned that the more you look and chase for it..the more it flies away from you...Just like a butterfly, sit still, be steady and it will come to you.
And when it comes, I promise you...it will be sweet.
Life's Valueable Lessons from The Little Prince (b
Johnwain...hmmm i wonder how can we make this "inner" calculations?Thanks for the recommendation, though..I would definitely have a look at this book. Thanks!!