CNote100 Blog Comments (13)

RE: The reasons

Onefeathers, from one Daddy's girl to another.
It sounds like you have a really good realationship with your father, and he loves you very much. It's hard sometimes for parents in general to see their little 'babies', whom they have raised all their life, grow up into adults. They want to keep them little and care for them forever. That love is a blessing. But because you both love each other very much, then you should be able to have an open conversation with each other. You need to talk to your dad, in love, and explain to him how you are feeling. It might be hard for him to accept at first, but if you talk about it often and get him used to the idea than I think things will change for you. Its just important to talk about it in a nice way, not to argue, because you don't want to close the doors between you two.
I wish you all the best!

RE: If your best friend murdered someone...

Ben, your first comment reminds me of the movie "Throw mamma from the train" with Danny Devito lol

RE: The Door Hath Opened

I definitely wish you all the best! And I think its amazing that you have opened the fourth door, reading about everything that you have been through. Its a huge step, in the right direction. Just keep taking it one step at a time, and eventually you will get there.

RE: Should we look good for you?

10kohms, you are just full of fun facts lol very interesting...

RE: What do women REALLY want?

its kinda funny that only guys have answered to this blog so far... :)

RE: New found strength.

"But there are some people who keep their wounds always alive and never let them heal. They like to live with pain. Cos perhaps it's all they've got. Pain helps them remember and happiness makes us forget. So they don't want to forget and live with pain."

Maxmate - I totally agree. That's very true.
Sometimes the pain hurts so much that it's hard to see that we don't want to let it go. Who wants to hold on to something that hurts and won't go away. But, like you said, we inadvertently are maybe trying to fill the void that has been left empty, and so we sub-conciously hold on to it. In that case, it's important to have very close friends,family and faith. I've been in that situation before and I thank God that He helped me through it.

RE: New found strength.

maxmate - I agree with you up to a certain point. All of what you said applies, but only if the pain has healed. If it's still a wound then it is only 'patched up' for now and if harmed more deeply can cause serious damage.

Thinnman - I'm so glad that you made it out on top! and thanks for sharing your experience to encourage others to step up as well, because we all know it's easier to tuck tail and run. But the rewards aren't as fulfilling.

Frustrated with married men...

thanks for your insight, Billy. I was only trying to be nice. If you had broadened your scope, instead of rolling your eyes at me, you would have seen that, too.

RE: i need opinions

why not? is he coming home for leave or to stay? You just have to use wisdom, just like you have to with anybody that you meet up with on the internet. Doesn't matter what occupation they have or how old they are; they can lie or tell the truth however they want.
Just be smart and cautious, and meet some where neutral and make sure someone knows where you're at, and who can maybe give you a call to check on you during the date, in case you need an excuse to run :) Good luck!

Frustrated with married men...

Rubendario - thanks :) hopefully my 'best one' will meet up with me soon. Wish you all the best, too!

Frustrated with married men...

Cowhand - I am NOT looking for married men, thats why it's frustrating.

Frustrated with married men...

You're right Shell. If it's real love, it'll work, even with all the ups and downs.
Brain - I appreciate your honesty.

Frustrated with married men...

Thanks, Ben! At least some people still believe in a little magic in this world :D