it happened to me once dont worry...we were sitting hand in hand on the bed as usual ...all of a sudden he received a text and left me for good. stating " i cant see a future with you" .... so ....he obviously did not love me , but then again isnt it better now... than later ?? Move on , im sure youll find a DECENT guy, ppl like that dont know what love is and infact arent worth wasting time on !!! I know it hurts, it hurts me even now just thinking of it but do move on.... !!
Honestly .. it will take time but there are gorgeous ppl out there and you will find a nice person... give it time ... but leave this person alone ... i used to think of him constantly and wanted him back but nothing ...if he can change his feelings in a minute what security will that give you? If you get back together will you be 100% happy !? I doubt it !!!! Good luck...i had to post as it happened exactly the same way ...........:)
Do you really expect to have the cake and eat it too?! Where is d respect for ure gfriend?? Wat if she was in ure position .... Wat would u do!? To me only a REAL man can b happy with his gf without having these " problems" . I wonder if ull b happy if the girl was doing it to u .... Honestly... Grow up!!
Hey john it happened to me Once actually but theres nothing to do except move on. Its their loss at the end of the day. Rejection is not nice for anyone. But try hard and move on and show her ure fine without her...... Even if ure dying inside !! Try to b strong. Its not a nice feeling especially if u really loved her. I did more than i could to get him back but it ended up worse. Im sure ull find a nice person. Theres plenty of fish in the sea ..... Talking from experience ....
dont worry ... dont expect any answers as youll never get them !! Just move on , and think of the wonderful life ahead of you.I went through that but honestly I am thankful it happened cos I now I found a sincere and honest person and cannot be happier. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck !!
@ kady2010...... He was intelligent enough to create his account here , so Im sure he knows how to deactivate it. Unfortunately relationships are different for guys than girls.... us girls tend to put more effort into it whilst guys want their gf but at the asme time want attention from other ppl. Stick there for a bit and if he leaves it there and youve had enough just leave. Its a sign that he doesnt respect you! I guess..... There again its my opinion.
I Guess it does mean something ..... as long as the feelings are mutual and reciprocal thats fine !:) The problems start when its one sided ...... Good luck :)))
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RE: waking up in reality..
it happened to me once dont worry...we were sitting hand in hand on the bed as usual ...all of a sudden he received a text and left me for good. stating " i cant see a future with you" .... so ....he obviously did not love me , but then again isnt it better now... than later ?? Move on , im sure youll find a DECENT guy, ppl like that dont know what love is and infact arent worth wasting time on !!! I know it hurts, it hurts me even now just thinking of it but do move on.... !!Honestly .. it will take time but there are gorgeous ppl out there and you will find a nice person... give it time ... but leave this person alone ... i used to think of him constantly and wanted him back but nothing ...if he can change his feelings in a minute what security will that give you? If you get back together will you be 100% happy !? I doubt it !!!! Good luck...i had to post as it happened exactly the same way ...........:)