Swissblueeyes Blog Comments (709)

RE: ... correct me if i'm wrong ...

RE: ?????

I really like it when men are gentlemen...

RE: GUYS ...

Ya I love the blogs she posts..

RE: Personality Disorders

Yep..I also see posts where men have been duped, so I know its not only a problem us women go through..

Dating can be complicated but it can also be fun..If we all try and use a little caution before getting emotionally involved, it probably would eliminate most of the issues we encounter later.

RE: Personality Disorders

I agree Lana & Single..I used to be more naive in dating..I used to fall in love very easily and would overlook warning signs..

Now I've learned to take my time before jumping in too fast.

RE: GUYS ...

RE: I Need A Hug!

Ya I was feeling like this on Tuesday..
Im ok today though..
Heres a hugg..

RE: I am whatever you say I am

I think alot of people assume things, even in dating..Most of the time us women assume the man we like is going to live up to his words about himself or his intentions, and then it gets us in trouble emotionally when we find out, "he lied".. lol

RE: this woman let me down

bustercc..I looked at your profile and it says your 55 but looking for women starting at age 18??
My advise is to be a little more realistic in your search for women and also just remember, if someone is very hot, they get messages from people all over the world and might not feel the same interest in someone who might not have the criteria she or he is looking for.

A meeting or a first date is only just a meeting or a first date, its not a relationship..Just try dating and having fun without any unrealistic expectations..k? good luck

RE: Houdini

Hi Missdamianlewis..The men who do this are either "players" or are doing what alot of people do and are chatting to many folks, getting to know them and then deciding who they want to meet and then they stop contacting everyone else and focus on the "one" they chose.

I would suggest to stop taking everyone who contacts you so seriously, date, have fun and play the field untill "one" special guy comes along and you both are on the same page as to wanting a full committment..

Words online are easy to use and men and women both are capable of playing games...Just have fun, dont let the small stuff upset you..

RE: What you've all been waiting for

Cool Jim...My first memory of fireworks was when my dad too the whole family to see a movie at the drive in movie theater and we had a brand new convertible car.
The top was down and in between movies the movie theater blew off fireworks that were above our heads and with the top down in the car it was quite a site to see..

Now anytime Ive gone to fireworks that are directly over my head I remember this..My dad was one of the best dads in the world.

RE: Cyber lies …

The cartoon got me laughing Jode..Again a great blog..

RE: Men …. Pffffffffffft!

@Virgos comment

RE: Men …. Pffffffffffft!

@ Franks comment...

p.s jode the photo of the cat boxing the dog is funny..got me laughing..

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

@ Lou..If you read the comments, we all agreed men and women both leer or ogle, but to do it in front of a girlfriend "in public" with a boyfriend or spouse is showing a lack of respect towards their mate.

If both people want to act that way in public, thats their choice, but some of us want to show some class and respect for our mates.

no sense in beating this subject to death..its all a matter of "choice" what we choose to do while out with our mates, and we cant blame it on our hormones...lol

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

Hi Jana..Thank you..My ex boyfriend had class when he was out in public with me..I've also seen men in public when they were out with their wives or girlfriends and they didnt leer at other women in front of her.

It all boils down to if the guy has class and is using his concience..Some men have it and others just use the excuse their hormones caused the lack of consideration or class.

We would sometimes talk about things in private, and my ex bf would talk about how he was out some place alone and saw some lady wore a outfit he liked or something like this, so I know he did look when I wasnt around..Im just glad he never did this while we were out together..

It just makes it more pleasant to be out with someone who respects our feelings.

RE: Men …. Pffffffffffft!

Ya we have guys like that over here in Michigan too..Makes me think their parents raised them in a barn with no manners.

I dont blame you for being angry..I would be very tempted to rear end that guys car..

RE: Anyone

If you put a photo up of yourself, it might help get people to want to talk to you..

RE: bye bye

Hi Dalkgirl..Try modifying your age criteria on the men you are looking for..maybe 38 to 55?
Sometimes if we put too much restrictions on our profile it scares men off..Lots of attractive men online who are over 42.K?
good luck

RE: OH NO !!!

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

Ohhh one more photo I can "ogle"

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

Morgan, that old man is the lady in the photos "Father in law"...Her husbands dad.. LOL...

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

I found the article your talking about online Kamrami and its just some single guy who wants to recruit men into thinking its ok to disrespect their dates and wives.

All I am saying is, ya its normal for ANY human, male or female to look at a attractive person, BUT as humans with a concience, we can controll our selfish urges.

As far as men getting jelouse because they view a girlfriend as their property is just plain ridiculous..No one is anyones property, we dont own our spouse..If we really love them, we can show respect while out on a date with them..

I dont buy into this hormonal excuses..We can ogle people in public when were not with our spouse, but to do it in front of our spouse is just plain "rude" and disrespectful towards their feelings.

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

@Kamrami..I posted two other photos up of a hot brad pitt on this blog..Cant you see them? I can..The first post on the first page the photo didnt show up..But i know the other two did..

What cant you understand?? Us ladies can ogle..We have hormones and maybe if all this "modern" ideas of how men cannot help themselves to ogle is because of their hormones, then all I can say is so do us ladies..We have hormones too..Heck lets just have a free for all and everyone who dates can Ogle other people while with our date??

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

Here is a photo of Bradd Pitt for the ladies to all "ogle"

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

well dont fool yourself into thinking men dont get jealouse..

us women can oogle men in front of you guys and do much worse if we "choose" to do it. AND most mens egos cannot handle a woman doing the same thing to them ..

men "can" controll their urges,just as well as women can "if they choose" to.. its why we humans were born with a "concience"... Stop using your hormones for a excuse to do what feels natural and then maybe you will find a soulmate.

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

oh & p.s.. I have dated men in my life who showed me the respect of not "ogeling" other women while out on a date with me...

Sorry but just because some doctor decides he likes to oogle other women and is looking for a excuse to do this, does not mean it is total facts..

Scientists and some doctors do not accept the fact we all have a "concience" and can do what is right..."if we want to", its what separates us from being a animal.

Animals do what feels good to them, humans are suppose to know the difference between right and wrong..

RE: Is It Normal for Men to Ogle Women?

I dont know why everyone always excuses a mans behaviour on his "hormones" or his male brain..

We are all human and have a "concience" and as adults can decide how to use this, if we want to.

I dont buy into the myths "oh hes a man" "he cant help himself" bs..

If a man is "really" in love with his wife or girlfriend, he wont ogle other women while his girlfriend is with him..

He probably would do this when she isnt around though..
If a man or woman doesnt respect her partner, then he or she isnt "really" in love with them..

RE: Have u got a good grip on your life?

Hey I found the rhinos car