Swissblueeyes Blog Comments (709)

RE: Yo dawg, nice catch

ya jim, puppies are soo cute..these photos of them are making me want to go get one and bring it home..lol

RE: Yo dawg, nice catch

Hi 10k..You seem to be angry lately in the past week.
Is everything ok? Or is someone using your computer instead of you? lol..Im wondering this because it isnt your usual style to say anything mean..?

RE: Yo dawg, nice catch

RE: Yo dawg, nice catch

Awww, what a cute beagle puppy & smart too..

RE: Wrong one

I think part of the problem is maybe the age your in?
I would suggest not picking girls in their teens, 18 and 19 like your age preference starts at..Usually girls that age arent mature enough to know what they want.
Also girls sometimes in their 20s dont either..Seeing that you are only 29 is probably frustrating because alot of females younger than 27 are not always ready to settle down or dont know what they want?
I would suggest finding one at least 25 years old on up to 32?

RE: Is it just me, or is this whole thing like buying

p.s grump..i would suggest you make a better profile name though..i think the name "grump" might put some women off..lol

RE: Is it just me, or is this whole thing like buying

Dont get discouraged..It takes some patience to find the right one.
Just remember everyone has their preferences and if they dont message back, it is either because of something on your profile that doesnt fit their criteria or they are not feeling the attraction to a photo.
If this happens, dont take it personal, just move on and one will come along that fits.

RE: The struggle

Hi Isabella..Yes I have experienced this before. Where I felt feelings of attraction for a man who was a friend, but I wasnt his type.
From my experience, its best to shove those feelings out of the way because the end result if you try to persue it, will be either he rejects the offer, or he accepts it and just uses you.
In rare cases though, it does work out, but it's not very common.
Usually men want to be the one who does the persuing..Even if they say they dont, they do..The best way to start a relationship is if the man is extremely attracted to you, your his type and he courts you and falls in love. This way you will never have that nagging doubt in your mind if he is really in love or just going through the motions.
I think most of us dont have the patience to wait for this..Including myself..lol..I've rushed into things or went with the wrong guy, only to be hurt or later realize he is wrong for me. So, I suppose patience is a virtue for sure and good things come to those who wait..

RE: love or friendship?

Wow..He told you he wants to break up with her??
How do you know he is telling the truth?
I agree with Frank..If he is telling you this, he should be honest with her and tell her too.
Something doesnt sound right here though..If their relationship is smooth sailing and they are planning on getting married, it doesnt sound realistic that he would tell you he wants to break up with her.
Are you sure it isnt only you who is wanting him back? Or if he really said this and didnt tell her, is he just wanting a last time in bed with you?
If she is a close friend, you will most likely ruin the friendship because of this guy if you belive what he is saying and sleep with him.
What ended the relationship with him and you?
Usually men dont leave a woman who is the love of their lives.
I would be suspicious of this if I were you.
Also I cant hurt people, especially not a friend.

RE: Someone Please HELP !!

RE: Someone Please HELP !!

RE: Someone Please HELP !!

Watch out Jim..Shes ready..

RE: Comments requested.

Yes, respect for each other while posting is always good.

RE: Actually what all man looking in this site

@parti

RE: … in a world full of strangers ...

yes maybe mr right lives a block away from me??

RE: feeling pressured at the age of 27.

If you think that is bad, my family all thought if you dont marry by the time you were 20, you were going to be a "spinster"..lol
I had big pressure to marry by the time I finished High School and look what happened? Yep, I married mr wrong..
No sense in rushing things, if you find a good man, take a little time to see how things go..

RE: The secret of a happy marriage.

Thank you diamond..thats a sweet thing to say..

RE: what does it mean?

Baltus.

RE: Actually what all man looking in this site

Hi Ka Ra..dont worry, there will be men who will contact you..Be careful what you say about men though on the blogs.
some might take it personally then make attacking comments.

RE: eclipse

The last lunar exclipse that could be viewed over here in Michigan, I only got to see part of it..The sky got cloudy after only 1/4 of it eclipsed..lol
What I saw though was awsome..

RE: What is LOVE?

True love is something I think would be wonderful with a man who is my soulmate.
I have fallen in love in the past, but unfortunately he wasnt who god wanted me to be with for long..lol

RE: Home and away

aww, Searchforfreedom..That is so sweet of you to care about your daughter so much..

RE: Ice cream anyone...

Narnia, your making me jealouse..lol
lucky you, that you can eat all you want and never worry about it.

RE: General apologies.

Hi jebencla..I dont know you well yet but from what ive seen, ive never seen you deliberately hurt anyone..
k?

RE: Throwing in the towel...maybe?

@Belle..Your not old yet and there is a guy out there who is probably looking for a lady like you too.
Dont give up..k..

RE: hard to find real one..,

ya baltus..i also sometimes type too fast..
@Belle..i know what you mean, ive done that in the past too. i meet a man i feel attracted to then next thing i know i assumed he is the right guy.
so, after learning from my mistakes, i use more common sense and take things slow untill it is safe to fall in love.
life is too short for the drama of a bad relationship. lol

RE: hard to find real one..,

oh jeez..i must have read my post wrong..i thought i spelled the city name wrong..whatever...

RE: hard to find real one..,

p.s..I made a spelling error on my last post..The city my family comes from is "Bern" Not Burn..lol

RE: hard to find real one..,

hi virgo..

RE: You may have forgotten something

lol jim...hid a present so good you couldnt find it?