Canthink?? Where did I say your looking for a man?? Did you read my post?? Hello,Some women might think because you have so many kids you wont have the time to put the female your seeing first. Not trying to be mean, but the facts are some folks dont want to be with someone with a lot of children..Some will want that and some wont. I dont think just because a guy has kids he will automatically be sweet and thoughtful to "me".. Just saying I dont see how you can say all women are going to assume because you have kids you are so nice. It takes time to get to know someone to find out those things.
I dont mind if a guy calls me beautiful..It shows interest..The only time I dont like flattery is when I find out they are looking to get something from me by flattering me. If its sincere, I love it though.
I know what you mean..I had to delete a yahoo mail account because I was getting 200 junk mails every day. I lost count of how many times I supposedly won 3,0000000000 dollars on the uk lottery.. Oh and the relative who left me 34,000000000000 dollars in some bank account that I have to fly over to africa and sign for.
Oh & p.s. I never give out my yahoo messenger id to anyone unless they offer to let me view them on cam first to make sure they are who they say they are..
Ya you can find someone special but why do so many women take every guy they talk to online so seriously too soon? Alot of men are shy about committing to one woman too soon and they play the field..I think women should do the same thing untill they dated the guy long enough, find out if he is right for her and makes sure he is in love and only seeing her before she falls in love..Why set yourself up for heart break by committing to a man you dont know that well?
They want a man to be caring & thoughtful to "them"..They probably figure if you have 4 kids then your time being caring & thoughtful will be more for the kids than her. Plus a lot of men & women dont want to be in a relationship with someone who has that many kids. Sorry but this applies to both male & female. Stop saying all women are bs, men can be full of bs too. Its not a "gender" problem..
Yep..gotta say i agree..sometimes the signs do say if its going to be a match or not.. im a gemini..ya the terrible twins..one side of me wants to be a sweetie all the time and the other side of me wants to be a rebel.. jeesch..
Good blog Jode..Ya life isnt always easy and alot of times we have to learn from the past, pick ourselves up and move on..Life is too short to dwell on all the bad stuff.
True..No one is perfect, but we can try to make better dating results though by finding a guy who is a good match with our personality and how we want to live..I've decided if I dont find that guy, then life is better alone than to settle with the wrong one. As far as happily ever after, I dont have illusions about that, I know in every relationship theres gonna be some or at least a little work needed to keep the spark going and compromise to keep peace.
I feel I'm equal to what I'm looking for..I dont think my expectations are unreasonable..I settled in the past for mr not so right for me, but I wont settle again..Lifes too short for the drama or a bad match.
You got that right Jim..Negative people are like a ball and chain dragging us down. we all have a bad day once in awhile but the trick is to pick ourselves up and move on. As far as the morons who pre judge others too soon well its their loss. Unless of course they show up on a date looking like they havent showered in a week, have a gun or knife on them and have a crazed look in their eyes..Then I would say, run like hell.. lol
Thanks Jim..Size 2 though is really a bit too thin..My doctor said women shouldnt be too thin because it breaks down your immune system if your not eating enough. He claims I am the perfect weight for my height and age. Average size for a womans pants is around 6 or 7. So my size 5 pants is a smaller than average weight womans pants..Thank you for the compliment tho.. I put average weight on my profile because some people think fit for a woman is less than a size 5 small pants? I dont know how people get their crazy ideas but thats what Ive run into online.
Frank..ya im guilty of running away from the loo when the toilet started overflowing..if it wasnt in the building where i worked i would have said something..i didnt want any unwanted embarrassing attention drawn to me at work.. Luckily no one noticed it was my fault it happened..I did feel sorry though for the poor janitor who had to fix up the loo afterwards.
Jana..lol, ive never seen a chineese toilet before, im hoping i dont ever have to use one after hearing this. @Movinforwards..I still have a job lol..I also could have stayed at that office if I wanted to but I moved on to find more money. but thanks for the laugh.
RE: are women full of b.s
Canthink?? Where did I say your looking for a man??Did you read my post??
Hello,Some women might think because you have so many kids you wont have the time to put the female your seeing first.
Not trying to be mean, but the facts are some folks dont want to be with someone with a lot of children..Some will want that and some wont.
I dont think just because a guy has kids he will automatically be sweet and thoughtful to "me"..
Just saying I dont see how you can say all women are going to assume because you have kids you are so nice.
It takes time to get to know someone to find out those things.