Terbear..Over here on the lake, we still have alot of green trees and some of the other ones are changing..The weather today is cloudy and colder so Im sure the trees will be changing to all different colors soon.
ya terbear.. the weather this week was very nice.. today isnt so good though.. lol
seems the trees are still alot of them green and are taking longer to change colors than usual this time of year. probably because of the warm weather we had this past week.
sounds like you dont have any chocolatier shops over there in jersey.. there are a few here in michigan that are very good and they use all natural products.
I agree with Jana.. None of us are angles and even though it would be nice if everyone always agreed or got along, in reality, not everyone always agrees all of the time..Even best friends sometimes have disagreements.
I'm pretty straight forward and I dont believe in agreeing just to agree..Sometimes it takes more of a friend to give advice that will genuinely help a person, or call situations the way we see it.
@Rezalewa My suggestion would be you keep your guard up, but dont tell the next guy you meet, just keep things light and dont give your heart and emotions to a guy untill he proves he is "really" in love with you.
Too many women assume whatever a guy tells them is the truth, then they get emotionally involved and then hurt when they find out the guy lied.
You can still be soft, but just dont trust too soon.
In this world, the only person we can control is ourselves.
It doesnt matter what color Or race anyone is..It is a known fact that not everyone in the world will like everyone..What you are talking about not only happens to blacks, but there are many white folks, or chineese, or whatever nationality who dislike another person of "their same race" simply for the way they dress or they just decided they dont like them and they have no real good reason for not liking that person, and this happens in any race.. You probably have neighbors who are black who dont like another person who might be the same color, just because they decided they dont like them.
If everyone in the world loved and liked everyone and everyone treated everybody with respect, this world would be heaven on earth, but alas, it is not and all of us, no matter what color we are have to accept we cannot change the world or control everyone.
My advice is just get around people who accept you and like you for who you are and make your own happiness.. Life is too short to worry about who doesnt like someone or who does.. Heck If I worried about every person out there who didnt say hello to me or I assumed they dont like me, I would be a walking basket case.. LOL.. Just enjoy life and find beauty in every day..Dont sweat the small stuff..
coffee.. i work so much half the time i feel like im not really living life, but this site does have the advantage of making chat friends in the blogs so ya i agree its a big plus for this site for sure..
ya jim this northern weather can be very unpredictable. i wish i could fly to florida every winter.. i do actually like the snow around christmas but after mid january, i dont like the snow at all..
@takemetofrance, there is also the guys who have a photo on their profile, they say they are only looking to date but nothing serious, they have a trac phone or a rental phone number they might give you and they are always mysterious..you never find out where exactly they live because they never invite you to see their house, they usually always call with their phone number blocked, and they are always busy with work or something on the weekends.
if they always ask to see you during work hours ie> lunch break, and they never want to go out to a public place or stay the night at your home, that is also a pretty good indicator they are either living with someone or married.
ya our weather over here has been the same.. has been like summer came back again, but obviously it is actually indian summer.. it has been sunny all week long..
p.s. Even though I dont have any tatoos, I am fine with dating a man who might have one or two small tatoos..
I just dont feel attracted to a man who is a walking tatoo or has too many ink stains all over him, but a couple small ones is ok on a man.. I do however prefer he doesnt have any, but I wouldnt rule out a guy just for a couple small tats though.
I've never gotten any tatoos.. I'm glad I have not done this because I feel they do not add anything to our appearance and they can fade with time and look even worse.
When I was in high school, I thought about getting maybe a small rose tatooed on my ankel, but my dad talked me out of it.
I also dont have any body piercings other than a couple on my ears to wear earrings..
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Terbear..Over here on the lake, we still have alot of green trees and some of the other ones are changing..The weather today is cloudy and colder so Im sure the trees will be changing to all different colors soon.